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ktmay96
August 20th, 2010, 07:37 AM
Well this is just flipping fantastic. Now im super hapy. SIKE. Im flipping pissed. :mad: and sad...:(

So theres this guyyy A :wub: who I've talked about before. So long story short, my "friend" S (who I don't like but still thinks she's my friend) broke up with him. I texted him about it and was like "I'm sorry. Hope every things ok" yada yada. So during that convo, he told me he thought liked me, but he wasn't really sure, which so happened to be my same feelings for him. I asked you guys if I should go for him. I was going to wait a few weeks let him get over the break up and stuff. So I did. But throughout that time I was texting him. Not a ton, but frequently. And I started to like him. And after a few weeks, one of our convos even involved what would happen if he and I did go out. Like what we would do about S and stuff. And during that conversation, he said that he was talking to her and told her he like me, which led to her saying we can't cuz she and I are friends (not). But he told her, HE LIKED ME (do remember that, it becomes important). Then in another convo we were joking around and our jokes for eachother are he's a loser and I'm a geek. So it ended up me sending him the message, "Aww so I'm still a geek?" to which he responds "Yes, and always a cutie." (cue AWWW).
So you know, it sorta seems like he's sending the signals that he likes me right? HAHAHA YOUR SO WRONG!
I was talking to him last night and this morning. Last night he asked me who I liked. I was hinting (quite obviously infact) to him. But whatever then I told him he has to tell me first. Then he said me first. Back and forth until finally, this morning, I tell him. "You" pretty confident its the same. Well heres the kicker. He sends me "O." then i say "Ya... now you tell me" and guess what he sends? "A girl from my church, and kinda a couple other ppl."
DUDE.
You are EFFIN kidding me.
So ya, I'm pissed, and sad. I wanted him to like me. I was SURE he liked me. But ohh no! Of course not. Why would anyone ever like me when I like them? What a silly thought! So, ya this ruined my day.
This was really more of a vent than anything else. But does anyone else think that is kinda ridiculous?? I know feelings at this age don't last, but could we atleast try going out first instead of liking me then moving on within a couple weeks?

justalovestruckteen
August 20th, 2010, 08:16 AM
You could be one of the other people, or if he didn't name the girl that goes to your church it could be you,

He might just be scared to tell you,

(its possible)

well you could get over him,

tomboysk8r1314
August 20th, 2010, 04:07 PM
Well first of all...welcome to my club! Haha yeah the same exact frikin thing alwasy happens to me. I like them, they seem to like me, i tell them, and then they break the news...Oh yeah i like this other girl.

I currently have a problem like this with the guy i really really like. A couple months ago he told me that if he were to like someone again it would've been me but 7 months later and well here i am still single, and him liking other girls.

So i know i really didnt give any help but remember that you're not the only one with this problem.

KFC_Kid
August 20th, 2010, 04:25 PM
Unlucky

justalovestruckteen
August 20th, 2010, 04:36 PM
I'll try to help,

As my friend said "sometimes love is found over the fence"

s/he means "sometimes love is found by trying the other sex"

So if you have bad luck in guys,try some girls.....

Rutherford The Brave
August 20th, 2010, 05:10 PM
Shit happens sweetheart, if you don't make the best case he won't go after you. Put yourself in the front of the pack.

ktmay96
August 20th, 2010, 05:44 PM
You could be one of the other people, or if he didn't name the girl that goes to your church it could be you,

He might just be scared to tell you,

(its possible)

well you could get over him,


that is a possibility... he's kinda shyish.

Well first of all...welcome to my club! Haha yeah the same exact frikin thing alwasy happens to me. I like them, they seem to like me, i tell them, and then they break the news...Oh yeah i like this other girl.

I currently have a problem like this with the guy i really really like. A couple months ago he told me that if he were to like someone again it would've been me but 7 months later and well here i am still single, and him liking other girls.

So i know i really didnt give any help but remember that you're not the only one with this problem.

It really sucks. And it takes you by surprise too, cause they're sending the signals that they like you, and then BAM. Guys sometimes...
Is that that Alex guy? I read your post about him. I know how you feel. It freakin sucks.
And thats ok. It's nice to know I'm not the only one.


I'll try to help,

As my friend said "sometimes love is found over the fence"

s/he means "sometimes love is found by trying the other sex"

So if you have bad luck in guys,try some girls.....

Uhm, thanks. Haha. But I'm pretty sure I'm not lesbian, even with the confusion because of the raging hormones. But, not bad advice.


Shit happens sweetheart, if you don't make the best case he won't go after you. Put yourself in the front of the pack.

I don't know why, but the "Shit happens sweetheart" seriously made me laugh. But that is true. Thanks for the advice :]

Rutherford The Brave
August 20th, 2010, 06:07 PM
that is a possibility... he's kinda shyish.



It really sucks. And it takes you by surprise too, cause they're sending the signals that they like you, and then BAM. Guys sometimes...
Is that that Alex guy? I read your post about him. I know how you feel. It freakin sucks.
And thats ok. It's nice to know I'm not the only one.




Uhm, thanks. Haha. But I'm pretty sure I'm not lesbian, even with the confusion because of the raging hormones. But, not bad advice.




I don't know why, but the "Shit happens sweetheart" seriously made me laugh. But that is true. Thanks for the advice :]

No biggie.

wtblife
August 20th, 2010, 09:34 PM
I'm kind of a jerk, I used to flirt with a lot of girls cause I enjoy flirting, but then they'd take it up a notch and it'd just be awkward... One of the girls told me she loved me and I felt so bad, now I rarely flirt at all even though I like having conversation and messing around.

A lot of guys will mess around and sort of hit on me, slap my ass, etc. and I always have to assume they're joking sadly.