This girl.

[skinny_white_boy]

Soo theres this girl from my school. She is going to be a junior and im going to be a sophmore. Well she just stands out over alot of the girls at my school like shes really cute. But ive never even talked to her even though our lockers were 3 apart! I just couldnt do it im too shy. Well this year id actually like to talk to her and maybe even get into a relationship. Any tips how to stop being shy and talk to her finally? Like should i start out by talking to her on facebook? Anything to help would be great!

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[thiscityisdead]

Soo theres this girl from my school. She is going to be a junior and im going to be a sophmore. Well she just stands out over alot of the girls at my school like shes really cute. But ive never even talked to her even though our lockers were 3 apart! I just couldnt do it im too shy. Well this year id actually like to talk to her and maybe even get into a relationship. Any tips how to stop being shy and talk to her finally? Like should i start out by talking to her on facebook? Anything to help would be great!

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Dude I was the same way only a freshman and she was a sophomore. Just be yourself and like drop a pencil over by her locker and go to pick it up and just say hi if she's not with friends cuz that could be bad... But just take the plunge and hope for the best but Facebook doesn't sound like a bad start even though I don't have one so I had to do it the old fashioned way just be confident and just do it, you can't wait for her to talk to you right? Just don't act like your nervous when talkin to her just..be cool calm and collected.

[Art_dude]

yea ditto to what thiscityisdead said. Be yourself and do something that would open up a conversation for you two - dropping a pencil is a tried and true classic, but just going up and saying hi works too.

Make sure you have some sort of interaction before you find her on Facebook. The only potential issue with facebook is that she may feel weirded out that you've never talked but chose the internet as that venue... If you have real life conversation and THEN find her on facebook, it will look cute that you liked her enough after your brief encounter to look her up to get to know her even better. In other words, it's innocent. Plus it shows your genuine interest that you took the time to search and get to know her.

As for the shy thing, you just have to do it. I used to be like unbelievably shy, but you just learn to push yourself by actually doing it. Once you realize there's nothing to fear you get the confidence to approach girls more and more. One way to build up that social skill is to practice interacting with everybody around - sitting on the bus next to someone and striking up a conversation, making new friends, talking to people in line at the market etc. The more you're outgoing in those circles of your life, the more you'll feel confident at approaching people in a romantic context.

[justalovestruckteen]

Go for it,
or don't if you want to spend the rest of your life wondering what might happen,