Cousin Problem...

[TySpeedy]

Okay so my cousin is 12 and I'm 13. Is it okay if I ask him to jack off with me? Btw he is my second counsin, but I don't know. I'm kinda attracted to him, so I just wanted to see if he would? Is it okay? How far should I go? :confused:

[Andrzej]

I think it is okay if you masturbate with your cousin. I wouldn't do anything further than masturbation (blowjobs, etc), since there is a higher chance that one, or both of you might regret it, which could ruin your guys' relationship.

But masturbating with him is also pretty risky too. If he agrees then I don't see a problem.

[TySpeedy]

I wasn't thinking of going further. I just wanted to see if he wanted to jack off. He seems to be a horny one, so I don't think I have a problem with him saying no. But let me ask you something, I know you said prolly not to go further. But what if he does? O.o

[ray8806]

just be careful. If you want to do it, go for it. He's your second cousin, so he's not that close anyway. But if it goes farther than jacking off, I would be careful. If you start feeling uncomfortable, don't be afraid to say, "No," or "stop".

[Andrzej]

If he tries to go further, I guess the best thing you could do is just say that you aren't comfortable with that, and that you guys' should stick to masturbating instead of anything more serious.

[TySpeedy]

Mmk, thanks! :)

[reithedragonboy]

If you want to jack off with him, it's perfectly fine. Just make sure that you're both okay with it. If he wants to go further, then you have to make sure whether or not you're ready to go up a notch. Don't feel pressured to do something you don't want to do. And if he asks to go all the way..., well, just say no lest you want to be in trouble in the law for incest. Just a few pieces of advice.

[Judas]

You could. Nothing much wrong with simply jacking off.

[baruch6132]

idc wats wrong with it. i wud. and ask him if he wants to go further. if no then dont if yes go ahaid

[bob.johnson]

There is nothing wrong with it just tell him how u feel and just keep it at masturbating nothing beyond that because u might regret it in the future

[Deathwingo0o]

Don't go too far and it's fine. You don't want to spoil your friendship. Good luck.

[nhhssuperstar]

Sure go on and do it. I have jacked off with a couple cousins and we enjoyed it.

[chris4]

i think you are over thinking it. i mean, watch porn or something together to avoid him paying too much attention to you if it realy helps.

that is if YOU want to j/o too.

[fossil]

If he wants, if you want. Then go for it.

If you think on jacking off each-other and if you are not sure if he wants, try something, check, or just ask him. You will know the best.

[chris4]

If he wants, if you want. Then go for it.

If you think on jacking off each-other and if you are not sure if he wants, try something, check, or just ask him. You will know the best.

er, thats pushing it. i know jacking each other off seems like a really safe way of doing something with each other, but not really doing someting with each other, but this is what leads into doing more.

[KFC_Kid]

Jack off with him untill you can nomore

[MisterE]

Masturbation shouldnt be an issue, just dont do anything further then that, no contact probably is best.

[fossil]

Lets say that the both would like jacking off, and just that. Why wouldn't they do that.

And lets say that maybe there are not sure about j/o each-other. I am not pushing. But if they feel like they want that, why not. In case his cousin like doing that, then they can do that. it is nothing not normal. I have jerked off with my cousin/the same case and nothing went wrong. they do not have sex. They would just touch each-other.

Maybe the age of 12 is young, maybe not. I do not know.

I am saying if you find that he is interested too, why not. But with no pushing, ofc.

and be careful

[Milo1234]

masturbating with him seems fine but only take it further if your both comfatable with it

[SurfDudeJason]

sorry dudes. family stay away!

[the8bitter]

If you're both gay/bi you should feel comfortable doing it. I'm straight but I do have this cousin who's a little bit older than me (I think she's a sophomore in high school, I'm freshmeat) who is incredibly hot and attractive.

[neigh]

jerking off here with friends and with cousin -
first cousin ---- no big deal ---- normal thing to do as far as i can see -

[DanielBoy]

I personally feel if you guys are up for it, go for it. It isn't like you are doing it out of love, you are just experimenting with your sexuality, which is 100% normal and 100% okay. Just make sure it is nothing closer than a first cousin, brothers and shit makes it insest. :P

[Drivenbyjeter2]

IF you want to. i say go for it! It sounds exciting :) and j/o with a guy has to be interesting. I never have before, but really wanna!

Make sure he's okay with everything beforehand

[zander]

I personally feel if you guys are up for it, go for it. It isn't like you are doing it out of love, you are just experimenting with your sexuality, which is 100% normal and 100% okay. Just make sure it is nothing closer than a first cousin, brothers and shit makes it insest. :P
ok this is just a pet peeve with me ,but guys really you need to understand what incest is. first of all, this is his second cousin and if it was a girl and thy were older they could get married in any state in the US. incest is only "sexual intercourse with a family member that is to close to be able to marry". so if these guys wanted to go all the away even , it would not be considered incest. please. please, please get your words right. it makes a difference

[neigh]

i do with my cousins we range from 12 to 18

[Rashard]

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If you want to jack off with him, it's perfectly fine. Just make sure that you're both okay with it. If he wants to go further, then you have to make sure whether or not you're ready to go up a notch. Don't feel pressured to do something you don't want to do. And if he asks to go all the way..., well, just say no lest you want to be in trouble in the law for incest. Just a few pieces of advice.

[connorfla]

its perfectly fine,me and my 13yo brother,jack off together and stuff sometimes,and me and my cousin have b4 too

[ccrunner]

MasturbTion is ok but nothing else

[broford]

If he's up to it, ask him. Just don't go father than that.

[abcd1234]

it depends if u have that kind of relationship. like if he's just soem kid you see three or four times a year, probably not

[matthewperry]

i have j/o and b/j with my cousin and were fine now we jsut decided to stop one day and now were all good

[teenboi14]

jacking off is ok

[miguelt]

i dont see a problem if it doesnt go further than jackin off

[CaliKiDD]

just be careful. If you want to do it, go for it. He's your second cousin, so he's not that close anyway. But if it goes farther than jacking off, I would be careful. If you start feeling uncomfortable, don't be afraid to say, "No," or "stop".

this guys is a genius

[RadioPlayer]

I don't think there is a problem with it. I wouldn't go too far with him. Don't make an emotional connection. But other than that, have fun!

[hollisterboi95]

Same thing happened with me I actually did it we didn't go any further than masterbating so I think it went well for that reason :)

[pizzamon]

I guess I am the only one who thinks this is a bad idea. This kind of behavior could lead to some consequences you may not be able ready to face. For example what if he isn't interested and says something to another family member. I wouldn't want to have to explain to my family why I was asking my cousin to masturbate with me. Ultimately it's your decision. Just make sure you've thought it through.

[wiip]

ok this is just a pet peeve with me ,but guys really you need to understand what incest is. first of all, this is his second cousin and if it was a girl and thy were older they could get married in any state in the US. incest is only "sexual intercourse with a family member that is to close to be able to marry". so if these guys wanted to go all the away even , it would not be considered incest. please. please, please get your words right. it makes a difference

I so agree!

But I have to add that never mind with law, naturally, you and your second cousin are as related as you and some randomner. If you were to map out hereditary traits on a big family tree, you'l get two different triangles; one, your own family, going up along your ancestors (not by marriage, by birth and blood), and the other, your second cousins. Both your parents, and grandparents et c are unrelated (unless there's already been some incest). The two triangles only meet at your first cousin. Second cousins+ are unrelated!!!

Anyways, in heterosexual intercourse between siblings or parents, the chances of a deformed child are something like 60%, whereas with first cousins, it's 4%, and second cousins and the rest of the populus, 2%. There's the biology.

But that's only if you were guy & girl (which your not), and willing to go all the way (which you don't seem to be). So you've got no problem, OP! It's good to explore; it teaches you, it helps you to get to grips with who you are and what's what. I'm annoyed that I've got this far in life without exploring!

[Tyler1]

Okay so my cousin is 12 and I'm 13. Is it okay if I ask him to jack off with me? Btw he is my second counsin, but I don't know. I'm kinda attracted to him, so I just wanted to see if he would? Is it okay? How far should I go? :confused:

I would. I have Jacked off with a cousin and he really liked it and so did I.

[Daniel_]

If your both comfortable with it, then do it. Theres no problem as long as you don't actually do anything together.

[DrummerGuy]

Go for it!

[sounddude]

Yeh, my cousin showed me, we jacked for a couple of years..all good.

[cantwebefriends]

doesnt sound like a problem just make sure it doesnt go any further can make things awkward but yeah mutual masterbation is not a problem

[Funnyguy]

jack off yea. other things .. no way!

[SWMG]

Well if you are just doing that and nothing else and you both agree then i think its fine

[TySpeedy]

Please stop posting, this was a long time ago, thanks,[:

[ITSGUCCITIME]

I think it's ok as long ad y'all don't touch