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DismaliciouSx
August 19th, 2010, 01:38 AM
ok well let me start off that i have a huge crush on this girl but shes a really good friend of mine and i dont wanna mess things up with her. anyways theres just some guys that i will admit are cute but i could never see myself with another guy ( i think its cause im jelous of the way they look ). i guess my question is does that make me gay, bi or whatever? also i'm 16 so if that has to do with puberty and being curious or not. ok im gonna shut up now :P my bad just realised this belongs else where
Frosty015
August 19th, 2010, 05:12 AM
no you're not gay/bi
it's your curiosity taking over you
Giles
August 19th, 2010, 07:26 AM
Well if you're emotionally and physically attracted to a girl but you have some feelings towards a guy then you're either straight but you're curious about the same sex. If attraction to females and males is similar then you may be Bi. I wouldn't say that you're gay if you have any feelings towards girls.
DanielBoy
August 19th, 2010, 08:16 AM
I was the same way. I liked girls and guys, but I only saw myself dating a few guys, the guys I had real crushes on. I am bisexual, I like girls and guys, but right now I'm in a really guy centric season for me, hard to explain. :P
To answer your question, if you are turned on, and think you could love a guy romantically that is, then you are bi. Otherwise, I think your just curious. The only way to know for sure is to try a relationship with a guy. :P
DismaliciouSx
August 19th, 2010, 12:34 PM
good answers guys but i think benmullet described it really well, and honestly i could never even see myself holding hands with a guy let alone a relationship so i'm pretty sure its just insane curiosity... gosh idk why is life so complicated haha
lil emo boy
August 19th, 2010, 05:39 PM
you are just curious.....
Judas
August 19th, 2010, 07:58 PM
I doubt you are bisexual or gay. It's just curiosity or maybe - as you said - jealousy ;) You don't seem to have HUGE crushes to guys equivalent to the way you do on that friend of yours so yeah.
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