Hispanic or Bust

[Jagster]

Today was the first day of school and there was a Hispanic that I saw quite a bit. I think he's cute and somehow he did find a way in to my heart. I just don't know. If I tell him that I like him, AND my sexuality, it might spread around. Just that has thrown me in to a depression. Seriously, what should I do?

[justalovestruckteen]

do you want to spend the rest of your life wondering what might happen if you don't tell him?
tell him!
(or be friends first than wait)

[scuba steve]

Hold up, hold up! First off, is he gay...?

[I.J.]

Do you even know him? I think you should become at least friends before you tell him something like that..

[Art_dude]

yea, ditto to what I.J. said... do you even know him? how about introducing yourself, becoming friends and seeing where it goes first? Be yourself and say hi. Find out what his interests are and most importantly whether he's gay or not. If not, don't waste time falling for him!

[Jagster]

From the posts, you're all leaning towards the "Getting to know him" area... but from the votes, it's going the other direction.

[Commander Thor]

That's because you /should/ get to know him.
The only reason you want to tell him, is because you think he's cute.
Seriously man, get to know him first.
Make sure that this is actually love we're talking about, not just lust.

[[[chickaroo92]]]

Get to know him first, and then see if you should tell him.

[Jagster]

might as well head that direction.

[Ender]

Do you even know him? I think you should become at least friends before you tell him something like that..

^This. Get to know someone before telling them things you wouldnt tell anyone and everyone.

[Hewhohasnoriches]

I don't know. Maybe you could try to talk with him and be friends with him, then when you feel like you're close to him in a friendly way, don't expose your sexuality outright, but ask him what he thinks about gay people. If he's got a problem with it (for your sake, I hope he doesn't) then there are hopefully other fish in the sea. You know what to do if he doesn't have an issue.

I'm sorry if I come across as mean, I was just trying to help.

[Fruit_Tart.]

I don't know. Maybe you could try to talk with him and be friends with him, then when you feel like you're close to him in a friendly way, don't expose your sexuality outright, but ask him what he thinks about gay people. If he's got a problem with it (for your sake, I hope he doesn't) then there are hopefully other fish in the sea. You know what to do if he doesn't have an issue.

I'm sorry if I come across as mean, I was just trying to help.
this^

i think you should get to know him really well first. then make a move. you gotta make friends with him before you tell him your personal stuff. what if he's some kinda dude that backstabs you? what if he tells everyone and releases your secret? all those kinda possibilities you gotta think of first. but make sure you guys have a great friendship going on. :) best of luck to you bro! :D

[Jagster]

alrighty then. I guess I have a goal set for monday.

[Fruit_Tart.]

best of luck dude. :D man i wish there were close to gay or even close to bi boys at my school. eh... i really wanna boyfriend! lmao! hope you get what you want. but make sure you become his friend and make sure not to force him to talk. it's an uncomfortable situation. o.o again... best of luck!!! ^__^

[Jagster]

Ok Ryan.