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Thylacine
August 18th, 2010, 11:13 PM
When I was at intermediate 13 I had a crush on a girl. But now that I go to high school and I'm a bit older I seem to be attracted to guys more; sexually and emotionally. With girls its more emotional friend relationships and with guys it sexual and emotional. Does this make me gay cause I'm just not attracted to chicks in that way. E.g Naked girls, porn, etc sorta turns me off more than anything. What am I?

CaliKid24
August 18th, 2010, 11:49 PM
If u have an attraction to both then I say bi but if you like only guys then your gay, and only girls then straight. Don't worry about labels. Just go for what you want and makes you happy.

josh93
August 19th, 2010, 10:21 AM
I would say bi.

TheFame
August 19th, 2010, 11:54 AM
Well its really hard to say, you cant really just slap a label on it.

Things are going to change again just like they did at the start of highschool..
OR they can stay the same

So right now im saying either bi or gay,

CuriousDestruction
August 20th, 2010, 12:54 AM
Since sexuality is constantly changing i hesitate to label you as anything. however since you seem emotionally and sexually attracted to guys and not girls, i'd say you're gay right now but possibly bi-curious?

Justwondering
August 20th, 2010, 01:02 AM
Labels are for filing. Labels are for clothing. Labels are NOT for people. Don't worry what you're "labeled" as, just do what makes you happy. However, at the very least, I would say that you're bisexual. It really depends on what you need emotionally out of women. Maybe you're just seeking friendship. Since you're both emotionally and sexually attracted to men (and only emotionally attracted to women), you probably lean more towards gay. Only you can define you.