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The Flightless Hawk
August 18th, 2010, 02:21 AM
Ok, so my bf and me had this big fight today. We were just hanging out, watching a movie, cuddling up on the couch. later, he was asking me why i hadn't come over to see him or called in a couple of days. i told him i was just hanging out with some friends. i was actually hanging out with this guy who i kind of had a crush on. i told him this and he got mad, he was saying things like: Him? i know you like him, are you dating him? am i not good enoough for you? etc. he left, really angry. so anyways, ive called him like a million times and hes not answering. i went over to his place and his mom said he didn't want to see me. im really worried that hes going to want to break up. i dont want to break up, i really love him. the guy i was hanging with i dont like him as anything but a friend anymore. also, im kind of flirtatious with everyone, and sometimes Alex wonders if i want to be with someone else because of this, but i only want to be with him. i was wondering if anyone had any tips on how to get him to stop being mad at me, or at least talk to me. sorry this was so long but any help is appreciated. thanks everyone.
Andrew.6
August 18th, 2010, 03:19 AM
Well, umm I am no expert but you really should wait for him to take that anger out and or him to call you or talk to you cause maybe he is just confused and just wants time to thinks and I think that if he like you and you are a relationship he should not end it over a little thing like you hanging with some other friends. but anyway you just need to wait or him to talk first cause he is the one with the problem. and when he do, solve the problem and talk about what is that got him so angry.
hope you solve it soon !
The Madness.
August 18th, 2010, 05:03 AM
You should probably just give him some space for the time being. He may just need some time to steam off, then will start talking to you when he's ready to talk again. But, if he's not okay with you flirting with people, you need to make him understand that you just flirt, and you would never cheat on him actually. If he doesn't understand that, you need to have a talk with him, or try to stop flirting with people. I really hope you two work it out. :)
trackstar9.875
October 8th, 2010, 01:49 PM
Oh no, Jer!
Sorry to hear that.
You guys were together for a long time, weren't you? All your pics with him?
It's tough being young...but being IN LOVE also? Difficult.
Time heals all wounds; Give him some space...You try to NOT agonize over this, and WHEN YOU GUYS GET BACK TOGETHER AGAIN.....DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT looking at anyone else, until it's "agreed upon" TOGETHER, that you want to break off and date around.
If your hearts - PLURAL - are right, you'll get back together.
OLD SAYING: Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
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