help !

[Andrew.6]

ok, my gf and I have been having sex for almost 2 month now and after 25-30 min that we star having sex I cum and we both want to continue but right after I finished I don't feel the need to have sex and I kinda feel bad 'cause my gf what to continue and me too but is a feeling that I don't want to do anything involving sex. so my question is how can I stop that feeling and have this feeling have ever happend to someone ?


Thanks :D

[Frosty015]

well it's normal
after cumming a guy isn't horny anymore]
but you can keep pumping until you do

[Azunite]

I never had sex before, but still I dont understand.
You cum, that is okay but why you are not horny anymore? Cos after you cum the girl is still naked, and you still want to own that girl for your life and why you are not horny ?
THe girl is naked, the girl is masturbating and you don't want to have sex ?

[TheFame]

I never had sex before, but still I dont understand.
You cum, that is okay but why you are not horny anymore? Cos after you cum the girl is still naked, and you still want to own that girl for your life and why you are not horny ?
THe girl is naked, the girl is masturbating and you don't want to have sex ?

What? Havent you ever masturbated before? After you cum any hint of hornyness just dissapears.

The poster is saying that he had an orgasm before his girlfriend.
So he cant give her one anymore.

Advice to the poster: Take it a little slower. If you ever heard the term "being bad in bed" that means that the man cums before the girl, then the girl still wants sex but she cant get any. Right now your not soo good in bed, but keep practicing XD Paceyouself.

[otterpops]

Have the girl tease you and you tease her. Don't rush into it, otherwise it kills everything.

Buy your GF a Cosmo magazine. Heh.

[chazzrox2]

One. 30 mins is rather good ya know...
Two. You could always "do" her before hand or kinda warm her up a bit ;) she might be just that little bit closer.
Three. 20% women never have an orgasm (or so my gf told me) and something like 60% don't orgasm through sex or it's rare so don't feel too bad.
Four. A woman's body is a temple, if you get your rocks off and she doesn't you should feel bad! :P Next time get down on your hands and knees and worhsip it, then give her the pleasure she deserves, you can perhaps have fun later if she wants to :P

[tommym]

ok, my gf and I have been having sex for almost 2 month now and after 25-30 min that we star having sex I cum and we both want to continue but right after I finished I don't feel the need to have sex and I kinda feel bad 'cause my gf what to continue and me too but is a feeling that I don't want to do anything involving sex. so my question is how can I stop that feeling and have this feeling have ever happend to someone ?


Thanks :D

You're not alone at all. It is extremely common for a guy to completely lose his sex drive and "horniness" immediately after ejaculation/orgasm.

Going for 25-30 minutes is actually pretty good for a guy. But the best advice would be to pull out every one in a while to help you back off from cumming. Once you regain control, start up again.

Meanwhile, you can always use your fingers while you rejuvenate. And, if you finish before her (which is almost expected, since very few females can actually orgasm from intercourse), you can always finish her off with oral sex.

[Andrew.6]

thanks everybody for your advice I will really take them in consideration

Thanks again :)

[Judas]

Just take it slower? I guess.

[Jockstrap]

Yea dude its completely normal to not feel horny anymore.

[DanielBoy]

ok, my gf and I have been having sex for almost 2 month now and after 25-30 min that we star having sex I cum and we both want to continue but right after I finished I don't feel the need to have sex and I kinda feel bad 'cause my gf what to continue and me too but is a feeling that I don't want to do anything involving sex. so my question is how can I stop that feeling and have this feeling have ever happend to someone ?


Thanks :D

You need time to recover. Some people can give it 2 minutes and be right back in it, some people can take 24 hours, it depends on the person. I don't think you can force your way through it, or do anything to keep going. Girls can have multipliable orgasms allot easier than guys, so it is easier for them to continue.

[fossil]

First her, then you. Foreplay, fingering, linking, touching her body, passionate sex, try kissing her all over her body, her vagina, clitoris - stimulate it, lick her vulva, put your tongue in her vagina, fuck her with your tongue, lick, bite her body, but very gently, you can try anal if you you don't mind doing that, and i mean licking etc. Then kiss her in mouth and gently start fucking, change positions, that will save you time, than you go medium, then you can go some harder and faster, but with breaks, and also gently.

The girls want passionate sex, most of them. Get into it. First you girlfriend to be satisfied, than you, even if she don't experience orgasm.

But I am 99% sure (if she can, and she is into it, just enjoying) that if you gave here passionate sex, you will together experience orgasm. Just passionate sex, from the heart will make her real happy, and satisfied. And believe me, she will give you to fuck her every day, she will enjoy that maybe more than you.

You can also try the foreplay to be romantic, but i don't suggest you. Because it can be just fooling. If you try that, be yours, innovative, and do it just 1-2 times before you begin with the foreplay, and each not to last longer than 10 sec.

That's all from me.

[fossil]

After the sex you can proceed with kissing... if you want;....or better - get closer with your bodies, and go touching each-other, gently kissing , after-sex.....

[bond3108]

If you keep having sex more often then you will last longer, but once I cum I stop being horny too so yeh it's normal.