Need Help about Friend ASAP

[Azunite]

So, this girl was the closest friend I had ( but I wasn't in a love thing with her )
So this girl's best boy friend was also a very close friend of mine but we had a fight with him and I called him "snotty" in a very and very hard language and this made us tear our all relaitonship off.
The next day this girl friend of mine says we are not friends anymore because I insulted his best friend.
I didn't expect this because 1- I never look at the relationships of a man who I insult. 2- I didn't expect her to break our relationship because we were very close and I knew everything about her ( I even know her bra size :D )
And 5 minutes ago this girl text me " I want us to be friends again."
I am keeping her at bay but I don't know what to do.
I of course want to be friends with her but I want her to suffer a bit as I have suffered and I know we won't be as close as before.
I mean, I texted this girl every night for hours... ( and ı mean, hours. )

[Contra]

If you want to be friends with her again, restart the relationship, but tell her in advance that she has hurt you and that your relationship won't be the same as it used to be, that will make her think.

[Art_dude]

It sounds like she simply over reacted to your insult and thus, decided to break off your friendship. Then she realized she was being a little bit irrational and offered her friendship back... why the hell would you say no? you want her to 'suffer' a little bit more? You're really willing to risk a best friend over a little argument in order for you to make a point and stick it to her? She's your best friend and she fucked up - be the bigger person and accept her back. I think you're forgetting that you're the one who made the unnecessary insult to HER friend. I'm not saying it was o.k. for her to break off her friendship with you so irrationally, but geez, get some perspective man.

[Azunite]

The ınsult wasn't unnessecary, and do I have to calculate all relations before I momentarily insult someone ? please...

[Art_dude]

Where did I say you have to calculate all relations before you momentarily insult someone? No where did I say you should do that.

regardless of whether or not you felt insulting him was necessary, you still said something that was hurtful to YOUR FRIEND. Whether you thought it was hurtful or not is irrelevant. Your friend reacted to something YOU said. I'm in no way excusing her for what she did to you, I'm just trying to explain where she's coming from. Whatever it is you said about him clearly insulted her and so she felt like reacting by 'breaking up' your friendship.

Regardless of all that, it's still stupid to risk losing a friendship over something as petty as wanting to stick it to her. so she fucked up. We all do. I'd consider that pretty low on the fucking up scale. All you need to say is that you're sorry you insulted her friend and that you hope something as simple as that wouldn't cause you to break your friendship in the future.

[Azunite]

Well this friend I insulted just started a chat with me on facebook so I think all is well with that friend.
But I fear this girl is plannin something, ı mean she yelled and swore on me for hours ! Why change opinion now