Gay?!?!

[Sinfully]

Is it weird to know your gay at 13? And also i dont know any other gay guys at all :S any help? Or someone to talk to?

[karl]

No, it's not weird at all. Maybe a little young to be absolutely sure

[MisterE]

^ agree with guy above me, you may be a little young to be 100% positive, youll find in your teen years your views may change slightly, but as of now thinking your gay is not a bad thing

[Andrzej]

No, I knew I was gay when I was 13, or at least I knew I was attracted to other boys. I don't think you should label yourself as gay so quickly, though.

[ackmedsgirl666]

maybe ur not 100% sure yet because ur still young but im sure u will eventually figure things out
however u did say u know no other gay guys. well check in your area there may be local groups where u can meet other gay ppl. give it a try and let me know how it goes

[Billy15]

Casey, I dont think its weird at all and if it is, then I'm weird to because I started realize that I was gay (something was very different with me) when I was around 12-13
but didn't totally admit it to myself until recently. I fought with myself, denied it, secluded myself because I hated myself, prayed and even started going to church, hoping that I wouldn't be gay (man I remember all that so well lol) but guess what, I am
and you know something else, God made us this way and we're in good company. (wink)

Im not the sharpest tool in the shed lol but I've been where you are (we all probably have) and if you need a friend, I could always use another good friend. Hope that helped a little.

[ontarioboy]

not weird at all.

[Giles]

Like basically everyone has said so far, 13 is a bit too young to be able to say that you're completely certain about your sexuality. As your feelings towards people and things can change so drastically, hormones and other puberty related stuff can change you so much that it's difficult to be sure of anything.

When I was 13 I knew that I had an interest in boys, just not that that is all I was interested in. Even at 15 I don't claim to be 100% sure but I do understand that I've very little interest in girls.

[Icarus7]

Is it weird to know your gay at 13? And also i dont know any other gay guys at all :S any help? Or someone to talk to?


Nope, no weird. Maybe you should wait for more time to know if you really are gay or bi. And you can talk to me and to a lot of ppl here who are going through the same. Thats why This site is soo great ! :)

[yoda]

Your not weird your gay so what.
100 post ya.

[neigh]

i think 13 is old enough

[NeverTooLate]

no its not weird :P i knew i was gay around 12

[bringmethehorizon314]

i knew i liked guys to am extint in third grade

[Continuum]

Are you absolutely sure? It's harder to distinguish yourself especially when you are still young and inexperienced.

[willrod]

I knew I liked guys at 13 but didn't consider myself gay until recently. So no, it's not weird to know.

[JimSauce]

I had a huge crush on a classmate at age 10-11, so no it's not weird. You probably shouldn't label yourself until later on because things can change.

[irishboi102]

no i dont think so

[PJay]

totally not wierd and actually thankyou for posting because i thought maybe i was different too. i never went through the 'am i arent i' thing. i new i was gay as soon as i started having sexy thoughts. i'd say 11/12 for me. luckily i didn't have religious parents or anything like that to make me question myself, and so i'm quite a confident person now.

[douglous]

I think 13 is too young to be 100%.

You're curious and will know for sure in a few years time. :)

[trackstar9.875]

What a great CLICHE Billy used (sharpest tool) Mine is: I'm not the brightest bulb in the room lol

I knew when I was 12 going on 13.

The first guy I ever saw naked...it was like...Uh oh...I like that!

Never said that about a girl, so I'm gay. Now, all I'm going to concentrate on is being happy. Best of luck.

[mmmark1985]

idk cause i knew i liked my best friend when i was bout 12 13 to and loved seeing him naked.