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Gir1337
August 16th, 2010, 06:47 PM
We'll, I havn't much time. I want' to make this quick. I really like this girl. Love her basically. And I don't know her too well. She asked me why I like her so much, i told her because of her personality, and how very very pretty she is. I want to find the words. But I can't. What I want to say to her, are what other guys say and lie to her about. I can't find words unique enough.
If anyone can help me. That'd be sweet.
She's short(I don't really like tall girls) , caring, sweet, tooooo nice. and too beautiful. Can anyone sum up something for me to tell her?
justalovestruckteen
August 16th, 2010, 07:16 PM
try this:
"No words can describe how I feel about you"
Its true and sweet,
And I sugest to get to know her better,
ackmedsgirl666
August 16th, 2010, 07:18 PM
i think u should just go with what your heart tells you to say
just tell her the truth and take it from there ok
Gir1337
August 16th, 2010, 07:30 PM
Idk why I didn't think of that justalovestruckenteen.
Thanks!
Any more advice?
AutumnDae
August 16th, 2010, 11:56 PM
It's not always about the huge things, how pretty she is, how sweet she is, all that stuff. That is important, but I've found that you need to fall completely in love with everything about a person.
My boyfriend told me one day: "I love you for more reasons that I can name. But a few are obvious. You're so sweet, you listen to people when they talk, really listen, and you're gorgeous. But there's so many other reasons. I love when tap your fingers on every available surface because you can't sit still. I love how you scrunch your nose right before you sneeze. I love it when you quote children's books, even though I'm not always sure what the quotes mean because you do it at random times. I love it when you make sure our feet are in step. Left and rights at the same time."
Are there any things like that you have found to be adorable? Small things that maybe other people wouldn't notice, or that you just find endearing? Mention those things.
Gir1337
August 17th, 2010, 08:14 PM
The thing is, she is going out with someone. But, I feel like odd if i'd say things like that to her about herself.
zoom zoom
August 18th, 2010, 02:16 PM
well i think before you should really jump in this one i think you should get to know her. thats what i would do but i guess thats just me. and if you really want to get to a girls heart you should write her a poem. if your not good at it ill write you one for her. i just need you to PM me and ill help you out.
Gir1337
August 25th, 2010, 10:08 PM
yes, i have found things that are adorable. Zoom zoom, can you write that poem please?
Fiending_the_freedom
August 26th, 2010, 10:40 AM
I really like this girl. Love her basically. And I don't know her too well.
Hate to be a bubble burster, but I can tell you right now that, if you don't know this girl that well I can almost guarantee her that, that's not love. Yes, you probably like this girl a lot, but if you think you love her and don't know her really, then you just love what you can see, which is superficial.
I just wanted to say that to you because some girls are afraid of intense emotions right away, like I used to be, so don't be so intense when you talk to her.
DarkHorses
August 26th, 2010, 10:47 AM
Hate to be a bubble burster, but I can tell you right now that, if you don't know this girl that well I can almost guarantee her that, that's not love. Yes, you probably like this girl a lot, but if you think you love her and don't know her really, then you just love what you can see, which is superficial.
I just wanted to say that to you because some girls are afraid of intense emotions right away, like I used to be, so don't be so intense when you talk to her.
I agree. I think going up to a girl you don't know very well and being extremely romantic and telling her that you love her is a little bit over the top. If you really love someone then you have to be able to say that you know them completely. You love the small things about them that no one notices. How can you notice those things if you barely know her?
I think you should take the time to get to know her, so that the infatuation you have with her can possibly turn into love. Before you start saying these romantic things to her you need to really love her. Just my opinion, anyway.
Also why would you want to use the words of another person to tell someone that you care about them? You need to mean it in your heart, and to me the fact that you're asking someone else to come up with the words for you kind of just proves that you're not quite in love yet.
arcticmunkii
August 26th, 2010, 12:48 PM
Answer me this...
1. Do you have her mobile number?
2. Are you in regular contact with this girl that you 'love' so much?
a. If so how long have you known her for?
^^
Gir1337
August 26th, 2010, 03:32 PM
1. Yea
2. Yea, we txt all the time, hug at school etc
3.for a year
chazzrox2
August 26th, 2010, 04:17 PM
I don't wanna sound cheesey but the best words are the ones you think of yourself, we can't tell you exactly how you feel about her, so therefore we can't tell her either.
You're the only one who can do it, but maybe its not love, teenagers have crushes. End of. Sometimes it turns into love, sometimes it doesn't thats the thing with love...It's wierd
arcticmunkii
August 27th, 2010, 02:45 AM
1. Yea
2. Yea, we txt all the time, hug at school etc
3.for a year
So you have been good friends for over a year don't you think something should have happened if she was interested, you may like her but she might just see you as a good friend.
You say she's already going out with someone... Don't tell her how you feel until she's single it will just complicate things.
Just be careful when you decide to tell her how you feel about her because if she doesn't feel the same way then things might be awkward for you to in the future.
When it does come (if you decide to) to telling her how you feel, just tell her, sit her down and talk to her, just tell her the she's the most beautiful girl that you have ever seen and how you want to spend every second of every day with her because of 'her personality, and how very very pretty she is'.
Tell me how you feel about my views they might not be the ones you have been hoping to hear but I think they are the right ones.
Gir1337
August 27th, 2010, 03:51 PM
Well, we havnt met in person for real since three weeks ago. She likes me I like her. But Idk how much she Liskes me. I am pretty sure shell go out with me when they break up. She knowa how I feel about hwr
arcticmunkii
August 28th, 2010, 06:07 AM
Then all you can do is ask her out dude. Maybe ring her and talk to her over the phone if you haven't already in the past 3 weeks and see if she would like to meet up.
Good luck ^^
Gir1337
August 28th, 2010, 11:55 AM
She has a boyfriend. We've talked Bout it a few rare times a few days ago. Trust me. When they break up, I'm writing her something then asking her out
arcticmunkii
August 28th, 2010, 01:04 PM
Good luck with that, do you hang out with her alot, go to each others houses etc. ?
Daniel_
August 28th, 2010, 01:26 PM
So many topics like this. Said it 6 times, I'll say it again.
Wait for her to break up with her current boyfriend, then go for it.
arcticmunkii
August 28th, 2010, 01:32 PM
Go back to the boys puberty section >.<
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