View Full Version : Help - Q on sexuality
atlf2856
August 14th, 2010, 08:32 PM
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Aspiringanonymous
August 15th, 2010, 05:15 PM
Sorry, I'm not too sure what your question here is. If you're trying to say that you're confused - that's okay, many go through a period of confusion at some point. It's okay to be uncertain, and like you said yourself, the best thing is to be open to everything for now. If other people won't accept you being different, then stay away from the subject while around them as much as possible - you can try to persuade them, once you have a more confident understanding of yourself, but not everyone is willing to listen - if that is the case, just let them be. You can't make everyone happy, and since it is your life after all, how you feel about yourself comes before theirs.
When one encounters conflicting values, one will have to decide for themselves what would be better in the long run - side with one, reject the other; or make a compromise somewhere in between? Surely the latter is possible. Is there anyone you can possibly discuss the situation with within your religious group?
Take your time; be open, be patient, and it will all work out. Good luck with everything. :hug3:
XpopularX
August 16th, 2010, 02:02 PM
i know were your cominf from and it can make u go crazy, but i think the best way to go is to tell ur gf. U guys cant keep having a fake relationship. Its not right, and the whole family thing, just keep it to usrelf.
bond3108
August 20th, 2010, 06:36 AM
If you're curious then experiment you will probably find out then. Look at some gay porn, and look at some lesbian porn and see which turns you on more. Do some stuff with a guy if you can and then you will find out. :)
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