Physical things

[SecretHarmer]

I'm in a relationship and have been for about 3 weeks, But people always say, have you done anything with him yet?
And i haven't but, I feel like it's so weird and wrong to get physical, and it's quite a challenge, just to get in that mode for me cos i'm a bit shy.
We haven't even kissed.
What do i do? Man this is harder than i thought hahah.

[KillerKing]

Okay when i had my first girlfriend it took me two months to kiss her. But it's not weird in anyway nor wrong to get 'physical' in anyway. There's no guide to relationships and it's all just based on instinct (i think so anyway) but when he does go to kiss you or you decide to kiss him don't hesitate or hold back. Just enjoy it!

[Captor K]

Tell those nosy conks to mind their own business.

What you do with your boyfriend, whether you kiss him or lick his earlobe, is a private affair. Don't feel rushed to do anything, but rather, go with the flow, and let the pieces fall where they may. People love knowing what other people are doing. When their questions and nagging make you uncomfortable say to them, "Find the nearest toilet and piss off."

*hug*

[Harley Quinn]

You do what you want to do, not what they want you to do. It's your relationship, not theirs, don't let them butt in and take over. So what you're taking it slow, a lot of couples do, doesn't mean you don't love the other person, just want everything to be special with them. You could ask him to take the reigns, him to make the first move and see where that goes, even talk to him about it. Just don't rush something you're not comfortable with! :)

[The Madness.]

You just aren't ready for that yet. They should get it. Tell them that it's none of your business. It's fine to take your own time until you're ready. Don't rush yourself with getting physical just to be able to be able to tell someone you've done something. Just go with whatever you feel is right at the time. :)

[alexloramer]

Hey girl I with ya. I'm pretty shy too. But I must say that I always really wanted to do stuff but was too shy. You said you can't get into that mode really. Well girl, you take your time. When you're ready, you're ready:)

[niecey]

:)I personally dnt thnk tht there is anythng wrong with it. becasue if your comfortable with him and your relationship dont rush into anything!!!