Am i Gay? Am i Bi?

[TheFame]

Once again i am puzzled!
soo:

Before...
- I was sexually attracted to men
-I WAS completly not sexually attracted to women
-I could like, jerk off to guys
-had emotional feelings for girls

now ...

- Same thing with men
-Now i kinda think girls are attractive, just not enough to like jerk or anything :P

- But now i feel some emotional connection to men like they can protect me and stuff and be strong (maybe it could be linked to me having no father to protect me? idk...)

I dont wanna be that strong one protecting the girl or whatever in that sence

- But i also feel emotional connections with girls..at least i think :P
Its kind of like a strong butterfly feeling that you always wanna be with that one person and cuddle with that girl, but not do anything dirty..but like makeout and stuff


-I think their a little more attractive than before, but idkk

Also im kinda scared of girls XD
Like if a girl likes me and i just met them i wont be all "Oh sweet a hot chick" I get scared and ill like run away XD
Unless then their like a Punkish artistic girl whos open minded then i think ill be sold on the spot..

but other than that i avoid girls that i could have a relationship with. And id never want to have a relationship with any guy, except when i get really tured on i feel like i wanna..well ya know :P


If im gay, weell alright i love gay people. I kinda feel BI tho.

[ackmedsgirl666]

well maybe u are bi but only u can decide that
but by what u just said i think ur gay(my opinion) i could be wrong tho
ur sexuality is all up to yourself tho and if being with guys suits ur fancy go crazy

[Scooby Dooby Drew]

Well, I'd say you're bi, you seem to be attracted to both sexes, so I'd say don't worry about it!
Someday you'll meet someone you really like, and it won't matter what gender they are.

[Captor K]

As I always say, emotions have little to do with sexuality, in my opinion.

Secondly, I did not see anywhere in your post that you were sexually attracted to women now. I can't really give you an honest answer without that bit of information.

[TheFame]

i editted it, the guy explaination is kinda dead on. but i added more depth to the women loving :P

[Captor K]

That's better. Now on to answering your question.

I usually give my opinion of the situation and leave people to draw their own conclusions. However, to be flat out honest, sounds like you're gay (and possibly in denial?). If you are bi, which I'm having a really hard time believing, you're far more inclined towards guys than girls. Your post seems to indicate little, if any, sexual attraction towards girls, but centered on platonic feelings and emotions. I know many straight guys who have sex with girls all the time, but feelings and emotions do not come into play at all. That's usually why I say they have nothing to do with sexual orientation.

You might not think you can be in a relationship with a guy, but you should think on it again. Your post sure seems to indicate a sexual love to and for guys (making a relationship entirely possible), and a non-sexual love for women.

Take out of that whatever you wish.