Time to move on?

[tomboysk8r1314]

I dont know if any of you know this but I've liked this guy Alex for pretty much two years...maybe one and a half. I've told him i liked him and the reply would be an "ok".

We're really tight, we know a lot about eachother and we stay up late just talking. I'm the only girl he trusts with his secrets, and he's the only guy i trust with mine. But when it came to liking people for him he alwasy said that there was no point for him.

What im getting at though it about 7 months ago we were texting like usual and he told me that if he were to like someone it would've been me because he liked my personality a lot and he told me that i was different from all the other girls. Its been 7 months and im pretty sure he's liked about 6 girls (from what other guys have told me) and i dont want to let go of him yet because i think i may even love him (then again that could just be hormones or something idk :P

When i ask him who he likes he tells me that he's super sorry but he cant tell me....

Is it time for me to move on for the guy that i think is perfect even though i get teased CONSTANTLY for liking him because all the other girls think hes a nerd?

Im sorry it was so long

[Paladino]

You shouldnt move on just because you get teased because you like him, who cares what other people think of him or think of what you feel for him.

[tomboysk8r1314]

You shouldnt move on just because you get teased because you like him, who cares what other people think of him or think of what you feel for him.

Thats no why im considering moving on...its because he told me that if he was to like girls again it would've been me but im pretty sure he's liked some other girls and i dont know if i should just give up because i have no chance anymore or whether i should keep on liking him and hope for the best

[Paladino]

Well due to the fact you said he said hes so sorry and cant tell you who he likes, maybe it means he likes you ? maybe thats why hes not telling you.

[tomboysk8r1314]

Yeah ive always kinda hoped that, that was the reason but im still not entirely sure. The first month of summer we texted ALL the time and then in July we lost contact and i missed him (turns out he was in Virgina for the whole month). So when we got back into contact he asked me who i liked and i told him that i didnt really know but still kinda him. when i asked him the same question he suddenly had to go.....Im so confused and i really want him to be my first boyfriend.

*sigh*

[kaitsluvv]

Don't give up. I'm pretty sure he likes you.

[tomboysk8r1314]

Don't give up. I'm pretty sure he likes you.

I havent given up yet, and i dont want to but i might have too. Besides even if he did like me he'd never date me because dating a tomboy is against the rules with his friends i guess. Maybe thats why he never addmited he liked him if he ever has.

GAH! Love sucks, point blank :(

[quackda93]

Just stay super close friends with him, dont burn the bridge after crossing it. Sooner or later he'll see the person that was always there and I'm sure everything will work out.

[tomboysk8r1314]

Just stay super close friends with him, dont burn the bridge after crossing it. Sooner or later he'll see the person that was always there and I'm sure everything will work out.


Im going to a new school this year so i was considering thelling him my feelings so maybe i could move on and find another guy but i really like him and i just want it to work out so bad.

[justalovestruckteen]

I think you should tell him, you may never know, maybe he likes you back,
and if he does'nt, you have nothing to lose.
well expect your friendship,he might be wierded out by it and quit being your friend or he might like you back and start a relationship but than he might quit it and stop being your friend,
But if your willing to risk it,good luck....
(by the way, I think he likes you)

[tomboysk8r1314]

He knows ive liked him.....but i dont know if he knows i still like him. I've never really gotten a response to it besides an "ok" and then a different question. As i said in an above post whenenver i ask him who he likes he says hes super sorry but cant tell me. I dont get it though...he's told me his most deepest secrets but he cant tell me who he likes?

He's also told me time and time again that he never plans on getting a girlfriend, or getting married. He says that if he would get married his wife would get tired of him and divorce him becuase he's so boring. That she would pretend to love him and then take his money. (He plans on being a millionaire)

I just wish he'd see that i dont ever get bored when im talking, or just even sitting by him. I love to sit there and watch him draw, see him make the fast sketch movements as he draws up a quick cartoon to make study hall less boring. He may not know it but when he told me to sit by him in band so i wouldnt have to sit next to a kid that annoys the hell out of me....well that almost always makes my day. If he's so boring then he should ask himself why i stay up until the crack of dawn texting him......

Im gonna try to tell him soon.....and if it ruins our friend ship...well at least ill have a whole bunch of good memories.....
I just want to hear him tell me that ive been his secret crush.... :'(
Why doesnt he get it?!

[The Red Devil]

From what you have described he likes you a fair bit. He is just scared of coming out about it. I am like that, and I know it was really hard when my ex told me that she liked me before we went out, she only did it because her friend made her tell me.

I think you should tell him that you still really like him and ask him if he feels the same way, and if he says i dont know tell him to think about it. That way next time you talk you might get an answer.

[tomboysk8r1314]

You may be right, and i hope you're right. I keep doubting myself because im not as pretty, skinny, or tall as every other girl in our grade. And in middle/high school...all guys seem to care about it looks.

I may be able to throw a football farther, slapshot harder, and play videogames longer...but it doesnt matter

[kyle95]

Hang in there. Don't press him to commit. If the time's right, he'll let you know. Even if there are other girls vying for his attention, you've already set the standard, so you're in a pretty decent position :)

[tomboysk8r1314]

Hang in there. Don't press him to commit. If the time's right, he'll let you know. Even if there are other girls vying for his attention, you've already set the standard, so you're in a pretty decent position :)

I dont think im really pressing him to commit if he doesnt even know lol...but im the only girl that has liked him becuase all the other girls dont think hes "dateable"

......

[zoom zoom]

ouch well that would hurt. hes cant really see that something as good as you is infront of him, well hes blind. but maybe he doesnt feel the same way with you. so friendships go like that. that you two get soo close that you dont want to ruin the relationship. well i think you should move on. and if you find a guy, and if u notice that its bugging him that you are with this guy, well then you kinda know that he likes you. but then you have the problem with the other guy. you would seem shady by darting a guy, just to get to another one, but i guess this is your choice. well GL with your problem.

[tomboysk8r1314]

Yeah ive been considering moving on and right now it seems like the best thing to do since he's not giving me the chance to tell him how i feel. I think that i will be able to get over him, but i still just want him to at least know how i didnt give up on him despite the teasing.

Even if he did like me i would be at a loss of words on why. I dont consider myself really dateable to other guys because of me being a tomboy.

Guys just dont seem to like girls who wear the same clothes as they do....