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[laurita_21]

Hey guys i havn't been on here for a while :)

I went out with this guy last year, i loved him so much and it was different from the other guys i went out with, he was so amazing and i used to talk to my best friend Lucie about him but the thing is Lucie had a thing for me since she was 13, and i always loved her too so she started getting jelous about me and this guy cause we really had something, sooooo Lucie gets really jelous about me and being with guys so she would start talking bad about them and tried to get my attention more. But she never used to be like this until this guy, but then again she found out I liked her so she got more protective of me.

But every time I talk about guys or hang out with them she's always like holding my hand and kissing my cheek or something and i love it and I love how she cares but I wish she would trust me more and let me hang out with other people without her worrying that much. I tell her not to worry and i tell her I love her all the time and I love spending time with her but i need to talk and hang out with other people.

What can I do/tell her to make her trust me more?

[XpopularX]

Tell her if u guys want to be true friends or whtever u guys are thn u guys need to be more trust worthy. U need to tell straight up and hard then it will go through more tell me if it dosent work.

[laurita_21]

She's my girlfriend btw. Yeah i told her to trust me like in a sweet way and she just said " I'm just crazy about you" and then made a really cute face. Thats the problem i just cant say no to her or be harsh. I gess i'll try and tell her to trust me more and thanks :)

[Art_dude]

My thoughts per request...

I think it's more jealousy, than protectiveness. She clearly has developed even stronger feelings towards you, and I think the only way for her to let go of protecting you so much, is for her to realize she's capable of loving other people. Is she bi or gay? When you spend time with her, try to get her out and meet other people. If you can manage to set up a date or something along those lines, and all goes well, her attention on you will hopefully shrink down to a healthier level. But until that time she will look at you as both a friend and an intense crush which means double the attention and protection. And of course, communication is key. You need to tell her that you care about her too, but that her over protective nature is preventing you from happiness in other relationships... ask her ' do you really want me to be unhappy?' you don't need to be mean about it, say it lovingly. Because the bottom line is that she IS affecting you when she's always trashing your boyfriend choices. Anyways. I hope I helped :)

[justalovestruckteen]

Hmm try showing her YOU trust her and she'll do the same....