Relationship

[thatguy11223]

ok im 16 i have a gf we been with each other for about 1year. but a couple days ago i went to a party with my budds i was drunk. and i woke up with my ex the next morning i had a one night stand with my ex. it was a big!!!! mistake i really love girlfriend but i messd up badly. what should i do? should i tell her?

[Deathwingo0o]

You better tell her and there is a chance that she will forgive you. If you don't tell her and she finds out, you'll be in one **** of a trouble. Good luck.

[misery_business]

She is most likely to find out anyway so its best you tell her, it's better than her finding out cause thats gonna hurt her more and if you tell her she might forgive you and she will be sure that she can trust you.
good luck :)

[The Batman]

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[XpopularX]

Tell asap and make it look like a big deal thn she will feel srry for u. say sorry and make it big with the whole kit and kabbodle. Its simple, i saw it on degrassi its a show but it might work.

[The Madness.]

You definately should tell her. It's better to hear it from her boyfriend rather than some gossipy girl next to her at school. If she really cares about you back, then chances are she'll forgive you. Hopefully she'll understand also, that you were drunk, and whenever people are drunk, they do things they don't really mean. But like I said, tell her, and I hope you all the best with her understanding. :)

[KillerKing]

Okay, Don't do what XpopularX said because that's just a terrible thing to do. However i agree with the other three. Tell her, explain you were drunk you didn't know what you were doing and that there was no feeling there. If she loves you she may not forgive you but she may see past it as a mistake.

[zoom zoom]

You definately should tell her. It's better to hear it from her boyfriend rather than some gossipy girl next to her at school. If she really cares about you back, then chances are she'll forgive you. Hopefully she'll understand also, that you were drunk, and whenever people are drunk, they do things they don't really mean. But like I said, tell her, and I hope you all the best with her understanding. :)

i agree with you. i think you should tell her. if she really cared about you, and wants you to be with her. she will try to work around the fact that you did stuff with her.
srry to go against you on something. i find when people get drunk and do something with someone else when they r dating someone, and using the excuse that they were drunk. i kinda find it lame. im srry but you should know when you r doing something bad. no matter how drunk you are. i mean im dating someone, and i got really drunk one night. i have been dating my GF for 1 year and 10 months. and this girl no details. wanted to get with me. and i was super drunk, but i knew it would be wrong to do it. so i think using the excuse that "i was drunk i dont know what i was doing" is just lame.

[AllThatIsLeft]

You should definitely tell her, you have more chances of her forgiving you if you tell her than someone else.
Be prepared though, it will be hard, and she will be hurt.
No matter how drunk you were, there is no excuse for what you did.
and you have to face that fact.