Hot Coach...

[quackda93]

Help! I am a guy, 15, and I dont know if this is just my imagination, but recently, my Water Polo Coach, who is about 23 and super gorgeous, has been like treating me strangly and differently from the other guys. She's been like staring at me during practice, telling me I look familiar to so many actors, and stuff like that. We are also neighbors, and one day,I needed a ride home and she like drove up, opened her window and gave me a ride. She had her arm around me the entire ride!!! I think I am getting attracted to my coach!
She gives me a lot of special attention during practice, and I think that when I am out of the water (we wear Speedos), she likes to stare at my crotch because I kind of caught her one time and didnt say anything.
If there are any girls reading this, is she coming on to me or something, or is this just mt imagination? She is super hot, and I am getting kind of attracted to her. I just dont want anything weird to happen or something... HELP!!!

[that1blondekid]

Well first off, your 15. You have raging hormones and your attracted to most girls, and you shouldn't judge a girl by their looks anyway.

Second, she is 23. Your 15. That's a bit of a difference... how would your parents feel about you dating a 23 year old?

Also take into consideration if she has a boyfriend. If she does, it might just be a misunderstanding.

Lastly i'd like to wish you well with your current relationship.. and don't let this predicament get in the way of it. Good luck. :D

[misery_business]

Well, i love my 23 year old PE teacher so I know what it's like xD...

Anyways, it's totally fine to be attracted to her and it happens to alot of people, the feelings are most likely to pass so just concentrate on your girlfriend.

And she's 23 so nothing can happen, so try to stay away from her and don't pay attention when she's not talking about anything relevant to your coaching so you don't get distracted.

good luck :)!!

[Bougainvillea]

If you feel this way, you need to talk to her. Because I'm pretty sure you're getting mixed messages. She's just being nice. Don't act on petty feelings that aren't mutual. It could make her lose her job. And that's unfair. Just because some teen thinks she liked them.

[quackda93]

THanks for the help so far guys... I know it may seem like I am some self confident jerk who thinks everyone likes him, but I am not. I think if you were in my shoes, the way she's acting is in a way different in a kind of innapropriate way. I mean, I enjoy it, but it's just weird! I just wanted help on what to do or say... I have no intention of dating her.

thanks

[misery_business]

Just don't do or say anything and try to ignore her when she's trying to talk to you thats not related to your class or training.

[quackda93]

Just don't do or say anything and try to ignore her when she's trying to talk to you thats not related to your class or training.

How should I do it in a non-mean way? I dont want her to hate me or something

[Azunite]

Unless she is a "person" ( dont remembe the name, the name for : older persons attracted to minors and raping them etc.), it is only your imagination :D

[misery_business]

How should I do it in a non-mean way? I dont want her to hate me or something

Like when you said she drove you home? yeah don't do that lool
maybe when she's talking to you just smile or laugh and try not to pay so much attention to her, if that made sence?

[justalovestruckteen]

Maybe she likes you,Maybe she does'nt,
But if you are going to start a relationship with her,keep it a secert,

[Bougainvillea]

I suggest you don't start a relationship. At ALL.

[ThisIsTomP]

Did you ever consider that she's treating you better and showing more attention than the others because you're actually doing a fine job and applying yourself?

[quackda93]

Did you ever consider that she's treating you better and showing more attention than the others because you're actually doing a fine job and applying yourself?

actually, yes. I love the sport, but so does everyone on my team, thats why we all try out and make the team. I'm just wondering why she treats me kind of innapropriately in comparison to the others. I mean I enjoy the "attention" I just find it weird and am wanting to know what to do.

It might be my fault too, because on a number of occasions I tell her she looks good, or looks pretty and help her out. Oh yeah, I dont think I told everyone this but she is my neighbor, too (she lives a couple houses down)

[Bawnji]

I think she's a pedophile.
You're below 21.

[Bougainvillea]

I HIGHLY doubt she's a pedophile. And it's under 18 by the way.

[justalovestruckteen]

actually, yes. I love the sport, but so does everyone on my team, thats why we all try out and make the team. I'm just wondering why she treats me kind of innapropriately in comparison to the others. I mean I enjoy the "attention" I just find it weird and am wanting to know what to do.

It might be my fault too, because on a number of occasions I tell her she looks good, or looks pretty and help her out. Oh yeah, I dont think I told everyone this but she is my neighbor, too (she lives a couple houses down)

Do you like her?
Im just wondering.....

[quackda93]

Do you like her?
Im just wondering.....

she is really pretty and we like a lot of the same things. SO I guess if she did like me I would like her back... bt she's 21!

[justalovestruckteen]

Hmm interesting...

I remeber when I was in _ grade, I grew a crush on my _ teacher (Im covering identies)
It was first inflatation becouse s/he raised my grade when I did'nt do much work,of course s/he knew that but it never affected our friendship,I remember another time when I cried about a grade, s/he said to me "I would add into it but I sent it already" I remember the advices s/he gave me, I remeber the times we just look at each other in slilence,than somewhere down the line, I fell in love,

I could tell s/he loved me too, there was that look whenever we locked eyes,
I never saw s/he look at another person like that,

and the eyes tell the truth....

But I warn you, Never tell anyone,
(weird excally what the teacher said; don't tell anyone)

[ThisIsTomP]

actually, yes. I love the sport, but so does everyone on my team, thats why we all try out and make the team. I'm just wondering why she treats me kind of innapropriately in comparison to the others. I mean I enjoy the "attention" I just find it weird and am wanting to know what to do.

It might be my fault too, because on a number of occasions I tell her she looks good, or looks pretty and help her out. Oh yeah, I dont think I told everyone this but she is my neighbor, too (she lives a couple houses down)As this thread goes on, I find it more and more unbelievable. :rolleyes: I mean, how is she treating you inappropriately? If she's not feeling on you or trying to hook up with you, she's not being inappropriate. You are being incongruous by making accusations that she likes you and is treating you differently than the other players. I say enjoy the attention, 'cause it could only be temporary.

And I'm sure she's not a pedophile. Nobody would hire a pedophile to be around a group of children.

[alexloramer]

Has anyone seen the specials on these really attractive teachers who date their students? I'm a girl and I have to say some of the teachers are very pretty and they go for their students even in elementary school. It's crazy!