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lightkun
August 10th, 2010, 03:28 PM
Ok first off *cough* *Kaius*, this is not about any sort of technique and is a totally fair question. Lol :D

So here goes...
I have a friend over and last night, we where talking about the most random things. We finally got to the topic of what makes you str8/gay/bi. We both agreed that you had to have an emotional attraction to whatever gender or both to place you in a particular category. Then we concluded that you could even have sex with a woman and it still wouldn't make you positively str8 and same goes for having sex with a guy and it doesn't make you gay. Then he was like "you could jack off a guy and be str8 at the same time"

I agreed. Then he was like "I think I would do it for money" and I was like "depends how much" (but I would actually do it for free because I just would lol) so eventually he said "I bet you would go down to ten bucks" (he was kidding I think)

so I can't figure out if he was trying to get me to admit I would do it if he asked. And if I did, would he. So what exactly happened?

And again, I think this is a totally fair question because I am only asking what you think his motives are. That's all. It's not like I am asking how to seduce somebody cause I'm not or whatever other reason you would have to lock this. Because it's fair... Lol I'm way too paranoid.

VTry007
August 10th, 2010, 03:46 PM
Then he was like "I think I would do it for money" and I was like "depends how much" (but I would actually do it for free because I just would lol) so eventually he said "I bet you would go down to ten bucks" (he was kidding I think)

Yeah, of course he was teasing you. But what he said showed that he was open to messing around. That would have been a good time to talk about if you "want to mess about, jerk off or something."

lightkun
August 10th, 2010, 04:09 PM
It's hard to say. Because he is a pretty close minded kid. I forgot to add that he would sometimes contradict himself saying things like "I can't really see me doing that with a guy." then he said "it depends actually on the guy".

Again, I am questioning his motives, not asking for help in any other way...

VTry007
August 10th, 2010, 04:18 PM
It's hard to say. Because he is a pretty close minded kid. I forgot to add that he would sometimes contradict himself saying things like "I can't really see me doing that with a guy." then he said "it depends actually on the guy".

Again, I am questioning his motives, not asking for help in any other way...

You know him better than anyone else here. But, in my opinion, he was searching you look to see if you might be interested. What did he say when you said, "It depends actually on the guy? You mean like me?"

lightkun
August 10th, 2010, 04:34 PM
He sort of just blew it off saying he dent know

Giles
August 10th, 2010, 05:50 PM
I'd say that you were having a totally normal conversation. I've had that same conversation with loads of my straight friends. I don't think you should look into it as much as you are, he was probably just curious about your opinion on the subject.

If I were you I wouldn't jump to any conclusions about him or what he 'meant' by that seemingly innocent conversation.

crazycoller
August 10th, 2010, 06:36 PM
I think he was testing the water with you to see how you would respond if he asked you and maybe even asking you in a not so direct way...