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Azunite
August 10th, 2010, 03:10 PM
So, those who read my posts will remember I love this girl but the approach was no more than mere friendship and for few weeks our friendship got weaker etc.
Well she invited me to her summer house and she was quite warm to me ( no mention her mother ). She kissed me from my cheek, she hugged me etc etc... I knew these were all in friendly way...
Suddenly, at those moments I realised I don't love her. My mum always told me that love and dating would never actually start before age 18, and she told me I don't actually know anything about love :S

Because, at her summerhouse I saw another girl who was 1 year older than me ( it was like a village ) and I suddenly loved her, I knew it would be de only time I would see her again.

And like I eventually fell in love ( so called "falling in love" ) with many girls and I don't think I tasted love in any of them ?
Everyone tells that " If you feel you have no stomach, If you dream about her always, then you are in love..." Thing is, I felt this in like half of these girls and It is not possible I fell in love many times...

1_21Guns
August 10th, 2010, 05:23 PM
hopeless romantic, you see someone you like and think it's love at first sight.
it's also, as your mother said, teenage love.
no, you can't fall in love that many times in such a short space of time, your not really falling in love at all.

The Madness.
August 11th, 2010, 06:15 AM
You CAN fall in love before you're 18. But what you're feeling is really puppy love. :P

I suspect you could fall in love more than once, but not that many times. What you're feeling is probably just physical attraction, honestly, and not real and actual 'love'.

Rutherford The Brave
August 11th, 2010, 09:17 AM
I think you need to seperate love from lust. Not to offend you in anyway. But I don't think you love either of them, you just like the idea of having a girl around. A girl that you love will come around though. So no worries.

Azunite
August 11th, 2010, 02:02 PM
Bah, I hate this life :P

tomboysk8r1314
August 11th, 2010, 06:13 PM
I agree with the people above but haha im sorta in puppy love too :P