Wondering...

[biboy22]

Ok, so well im definatley 100% bi. The thing is a have a MAJOR crush on another boy in my class, thing is, I have no idea weather he is str8/bi/gay. I'm affraid that if I confront him he wont be my friend and I don't have many friends, I mean he isnt like one of those dickheads who calls people fags or anything but i think it just might make our friendship awkward.

Anyway the real reason I am writting this post is to get some oppinions on his sexuality, I know that nothing anyone says is 100% true but i just want some oppinions.

Arguments for gay: 1. he is a very (how should I put it) friendly sort of person, meaning that he is like always grabbing shoulders and stuff, i know that doesnt really mean anything but ive noticed he does it ALOT more to me then an of his other friends plus once he actually squeezed my shoulder. 2. He has rested his head on my shoulder about 3 times in the last few weeks.
3. he once did this weird jump thing that was a bit feminine.

Arguments for str8: 1. when we were watching the movie grown ups and it was at the bit where the hot blond chick went to fix her car, his eyes were boggling. 2. Whenever there is like some pic of a hot chick he says: "What guy wouldn't like that?"

One time also we were on the topic of who we liked, I said i liked him but i didn't tell him that I liked him (for obvious reasons) but he said that I didn't her but for some reason he still didn't give me a name...

So, I know that no one can tell me 100% what his sexuality is, any suggestions as to what he might be, any personal thoughts, maybe how I should approach this would be VERY appreciated, I'm sorta desperate at the moment.
Thanks

[smoothietime]

Hot. Well it's funny because I literally have the same exact problem. Just recently realized I like boiz as well as girls and I really want to be in a relationship with my guy friend but he's almost definatly not gay :( . So yeah....

16/m/san diego

[Enormous]

Well honestly, the only way to really find out is to actually ask him. I know it's a pretty awkward thing to do but it's probably the easiest way to find out.

[smoothietime]

Well honestly, the only way to really find out is to actually ask him. I know it's a pretty awkward thing to do but it's probably the easiest way to find out.

Well it is the easiest way to find out but the riskiest as well. If it turns out he isn't gay you will almost def lose a friend right there because hanging out will now be far too awkward. But I mean that would be so cash if you just flat out asked and boom you got a boy friend.

[Enormous]

Well it is the easiest way to find out but the riskiest as well. If it turns out he isn't gay you will almost def lose a friend right there because hanging out will now be far too awkward. But I mean that would be so cash if you just flat out asked and boom you got a boy friend.
Yeah that's why many people don't just ask straight up, 'are you gay/bi/straight?'. It could be because they scared of the person's reaction and the awkwardness that it could create.

Maybe you could try asking in a more subtle way? Don't be so direct about it.

[Giles]

I agree with Willy. Try asking him in a secure environment in which he doesn't feel threatened. If you create a situation where he feels he can be completely honest without you taking the piss or anyone else finding out, then he might open up and tell you.

Just to clarify. You don't have to tell him that you're gay, if you haven't already.