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[rangerfan523]

Yooo, i a problem lol (aleast I thin I do)its not that im afraid its i juss don't want to get rejected but I really want a g/f soo what do I do

[JayTea]

Well, you have to ask to get love, and I will not be the first to tell you that getting rejected really really really BITES. A really good thread Gumleaf wrote about asking someone out has really helped me. http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=30402

[The Madness.]

Sometimes girls will ask you first. But you could also try and find out who the girl you like has feelings for, or get to know her first. You have to go out and you're going to win some and you're going to lose some. Not all girls will be interested in you, but you have to remember, there are more fish in the sea. :)

[tomboysk8r1314]

I agree with Katie, and if you really want to find a girl that likes you....well be you! Dont act any different in front of a girl you like than you would in front of your friends. Always be yourself!

[xlovexkurtx]

Learn proper use of the english language

[Art_dude]

Learn proper use of the english language

Doesn't proper use of the English language require correct capitalization and the use of punctuation at the end of sentences? LOL

yea, how you type on an internet forum probs wont affect how girls like you lol. But like every one said, just be yourself. A lot of guys are afraid of getting rejected when in reality, IT DOESN'T SUCK NEARLY AS BAD AS YOU THINK IT DOES. Really. Say, you go up to a girl, you politely ask her out, and she says no. Will the earth suddenly explode? nope. Hopefully she was polite in her rejection and you move on. Us guys hate embarrassment, but you have to realize that there's nothing to be embarrassed about. It may seem that way at first, but you can't allow it to affect you.

Everything takes practice, and requires you to fail a few times. And part of that failure is getting rejected from time to time. Don't get hung up on it, learn from it. Be yourself, ooze confidence, and go for it. There are stickies and TONS of great posts on how to approach someone, ask them out, etc on this site.


Go search the site and read! Knowledge is power. The more you know the more confident you'll become. Good luck bud ;)

[The Flightless Hawk]

be yourself and ask somebody you like on a date or something.

[zoom zoom]

Sometimes girls will ask you first. But you could also try and find out who the girl you like has feelings for, or get to know her first. You have to go out and you're going to win some and you're going to lose some. Not all girls will be interested in you, but you have to remember, there are more fish in the sea. :)

I really agree with you. you never want to rush into anything. EVER. you want to take your time with a girl get to know her. try to be friends at first. then i think you get to a certain point where you have two chooses.
1: you can be really good friends if you dont want to hurt the friendship.
2: you can ask her out but never put you eggs in one basket. she could say no. so never have a high expectation. you dont want to come crashing down harder then you would already. well good luck. thats all i can say

P.S. remember this. beauty Captures attention, but personality captures the heart