she cheated on me

[Paladino]

Well last night my girlfriend cheated on me, you guys were all right she is fickle and I should have gotten rid of her but now I have so I wont hurt anymore. I just want to know why she would have done that to me after all they times of me expressing the way I feel about cheaters she still goes and gets with another boy. It just kills me inside.

[Art_dude]

I'm so sorry :( maybe your intense expression about the way you feel about cheaters only made the idea of cheating more tantalizing to her... A lot of women, or teen girls at least, cheat not to necessarily hurt someone, but because the IDEA of cheating is something they find sexy. I know it may seem personal, but you just have to realize that it's about shit she's going through right now.

[Paladino]

Oh well its still not an excuse.

[Art_dude]

Not at all - I hope you don't think I'm defending her! I'm not saying its an excuse, but it is a possible explanation. It was a sick, slutty and awful thing to do to you.

[Jess]

I'm sorry. I hope you find a girl that will never cheat on you.

[jackfergusion]

I feel bad for your pain but I think your girlfriend doesn't interested in you any more that's why she hang out with another guy. As she has gone away than you should not feel so much bad because she has cheated you so forget her and start your life with a new passion.

[The Madness.]

I feel bad for your pain but I think your girlfriend doesn't interested in you any more

I don't absolutely believe in that statement. ^^ Teenagers lots ot times like lots of people, and like to see what it would be like to be with them. It doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't have feelings for you anymore, but it could just mean she has feelings for more people. I feel bad that she cheated on you, and I hope you can find a girl that won't do that to you, but teenagers just like to explore different things and don't always think about the consequences or who they'll hurt afterwards.

[Paladino]

I don't absolutely believe in that statement. ^^ Teenagers lots ot times like lots of people, and like to see what it would be like to be with them. It doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't have feelings for you anymore, but it could just mean she has feelings for more people. I feel bad that she cheated on you, and I hope you can find a girl that won't do that to you, but teenagers just like to explore different things and don't always think about the consequences or who they'll hurt afterwards.


Thanks for the post but no matter how much she wants to explore different things im not going to forgive her for it and Im certainly not going to go back out with her, I miss her and I still love her but I cant go out with her if she will just cheat.