I need some help please.

[asdfghjkl333]

Ok, my best friend and I were as close as could be, practically brothers. Some stuff happened that I would rather not discuss at this point, but basically we now hate each other. He is very two faced when it comes to me... We have tried to reconcile, but he just went behind my back and continued to slander me.

Recently, I have decided that I am going to have an internal make over of sorts. I realized that some people are just a-holes, and me being mad at them will not change them at all. They will continue to be a-holes despite my getting upset at them.

My problem is this. Part of this internal make over is me being extremely nice to everyone. My goal is to have NO enemies. So, should I try to reconcile with me former best friend again, even though it has failed in the past? Should I try to be friends with him again, even though I know he can be an EXTREME jerk and has hurt me and my friends??

Please get back to me ASAP. Thanks.

[misery_business]

Well you don't have to be friends again if you don't want to but you can still be nice to him, you don't have to hang out or be with them all the time but be polite and nice to everyone. If he hurts you and your friends I don't think you should be friends with this guy but thats your choice.
My point it you can be nice to him and you don't have to be friends, if you get wha i mean ?
good luck :)

[thiscityisdead]

I've been in a similar position getting backstabbed again isn't fun when you thought the problems were over...if his actions bother you so much I would just try and move on you'll meet another best friend out there somewhere just in due time.

This "internal make-over" prolly won't be all that healthy for you showing only the good and leaving the bad bottled up inside is not the right path, I mean being nice to everyone could get a little hard

Tbh anyone that slanders your name is not one of your friends more along the lines of enemies.

Good luck, bro

[The Madness.]

You always have the choice to be or not to be friends again. You can just be friends, and just make sure you don't tell him anything if you can't trust him. But if you're willing to get over the past, just have fun with him. You can still hang out, but not be the closest friends you use to be.

[JOSEE]

leave him in the dust hes no good, uve tried to reach out and he pushed u away, theres no more u can do, story time, (if u have an infected arm and u gave it medication but it woudnt accept it then u need to cut it of for the good of the rest of the body. ) in ur case leave him, and if he decides to come back, ( sow the HEALED "arm" back on)