I'm at a loss,

[Dorofolash]

So, I recently got out of a five month relationship with somebody I had not lost any feelings for during those five months. Needless to say, I was the one who was let go; it was very unexpected. There were no signs until 2 - 3 days before when she started acting funny, but nothing before that, we were just fine before that. She told me that "She didn't feel the same way" that "That spark wasn't there" anymore; which is all fine and well, but when did this happen? Everything was perfectly fine until just a few days before she broke up with me, where she just began distancing herself from me.

It really screws with me head, because I don't know what happened; if she doesn't see anything in me anymore, what did she see when we started off? What changed? I just can't figure it out. Now I'm having a lot of trouble coping, it's been two months since it ended. Like I said, I had feelings for her until the very end and still do. I've not been so miserable in a long time, it almost makes me feel like relationships just aren't worth having. If I get so attached to someone then they just suddenly shut me out. I don't want to have to go through this multiple times. I know I'm going to, but I let this ruin my entire summer. I've been nothing but miserable these past two months. Again, not just because she broke up with me, but because I don't know what happened; I don't know an actual reason why.

I don't really know what the point of me posting this here is other than a rant. I don't think I could get any answers out of this, but whatever.

[KillerKing]

I think you had an answer all along. It seems that you've been dwelling in the past for too long. Everyone does after a break up but in a realtionship it's about feelings not logic. If her feelings changed then they changed and i think thats what it was all along. I know you may still of loved her but i guess she figured you would move on which is what you should do. It seems more like you were so affected by it that you were determined to find a reason for it but emotions can be the hardest things to understand. You just have to accept it eventually.

And relationships are worth having, when they work it's bliss and when they end you've always got memories :)

[jackfergusion]

As you said that your girlfriend has not any more interest in you and she had left you so there will be problem from you and from her also. I am telling you that there will be your fault also because I think if you care for her so much and treat her gracefully than she might not look forward for great love and you will not have this situation. I am not telling that there is no mistake of your girlfriend, she had done wrong with you but now it is not profitable to talk more about this so I think you should start living your life with charm and hope you will get new girlfriend who cares you more and more.