Gay Friends

[Rcgutvol]

When I was 7 my friend asked me if I wanted to suck his penis and I said sure y not and we tryed it for a while and I liked it so we kept doing it until we were 13 and then he moved and he made me think about my sexuality. I this weird

[Captor K]

No, I would not say it is weird. Kids experiment sometimes, and the two of you continued this for years — and it seems it formed a bond of some sort between the two of you. And because of your age now, you're going through a period where you're likely to question your sexuality quite a number of times. I'm not sure if, and how you identify yourself at the moment, but over the next couple of years, you may go from having periods where you think you're straight, bi, and/or gay. I cannot honestly say that if you and your friend's actions will have any influence on your sexuality. Just take it easy, and give yourself time. Try not to figure anything out right now, because only time will tell.

[ray8806]

I agree with everyone here. Many kids experiment. Most guys think those who get the chance to are lucky in fact.

You're sexuality can be affected, but this doesn't make you gay/bi/etc. It just says that you and a friend discovered how to help each other out and have fun doing it. 'Tis all.

As one of the guys above me said, it could affect your sexuality, but DO NOT make any final decisions at this moment. Your hormones will be racing like crazy. Just give yourself time to really look the whole thing over. And time being possibly even a year or two, maybe longer.

[crazycoller]

I agree with all of the above. Almost every kid will expirament and your expiraments took a longer path that brought you close. Because of your age at that time you really can't call yourself gay or bi just for that. You need to look deeply inside you and sort out your true feelings and decide if you want to be with guys or girls or both in life.