Am i getting in the way?

[alyssa4ever]

I need help. I am 16 but at 14 i had to move out of my home and thankfully get to live with my brother who is now 21. I think i may be the reason he hasnt been in any relationships lately, because everytime he tries, the girls always ask about me being with him there and make hurtful jokes, in which my brother always defends me. He says he loves it that i live with him because it brings us together better, but in my mind, i am taking up space and girls dont like me being there. How should i ask him without making him feel i regret living there, in which i dont. I will reply to you in your homepage because im on my cell phone and some things dont appear as ones on computer would.

[Azunite]

Well they are staring because they think you are beautiful :) I can't find another explanation

[1_21Guns]

first off, welcome to VT hun.
they're being boys, not all boys are like that. just quite a few.
there's actually nothing worse than hormonal teenage boys tbh.
your area doesn't seem like the safest place to be, which probably doesn't help you.
it'll probably get easier as you grow up,
it's paranoia, not helped by what goes on around you.
i wish i had something helpful to say that would make you feel better, but i havent managed to find anything myself tbh, so sorry I haven't been much help.
:hug:

[misery_business]

I don't really know how we can help you here, i think if your that worried you should tell your parents about it but tbh boys are always going to act like that and probably just be perverted, just be carefull for any random men trying to chat you up :P
good luck !

[Azunite]

Allright I'll also answer here :)
What we boys do in school is to compare consoles and stare at girls.
Unless you have a " F me!" text in the back of you, you shouldn't have problem.
But you may be bothered by everyone who look at you, not just boys : paranoia.
But I don't think that the situation

[misery_business]

Erm..how about asking your brother to maybe go out with the girl instead of bringin her home and he seems like a nice brother so why not tell him this ?
good luck :)

[Deathwingo0o]

Maybe tell your brother to drop you off at an arcade b4 he invites a girl?

[Azunite]

Well it is a very good thing if your brother defends yourself and he is polite enough not to ask you to leave.
If you want your brother to be happy then I think you should leave the house.
If you can't persuade him, just say you need to take some air and say "the walls are closin' on me..."

[alyssa4ever]

Yea prince, im getting the idea that i probably should leave. I guess i will just tell him that. Like i will leave when you have a girl over and if they dont mind me there, you can call me

[misery_business]

But i don't think thats fair you don't have to go out just because he's go a girl over and whats their problem anyway? you live there and you can do what you want if they don't like you thats their problem and they'll have to put up with it, plus I think if your brother loves you he wouldn't date anyone who isn't okay with his little sister.
:)

[alyssa4ever]

Yea. I agree with you that i shouldnt. But is his house you know? and it is and isnt his fault i live there. He does love me and wants me to live there. Lol i dont know their damn problem. I dont really say anything to them except hello lol stuck up girls probably think its strange i live there. But yea it definately doesnt last with them if they talk trash about me. And yes. If you ever met him, you would see he is an amazing guy. And cares deeply.

[Azunite]

Sorry Laura the Little One but I dont agree with you. I mean her brother is taking care of her and maybe Alyssa should make sacrifices :O
It is not a big deal, come on you can spend few hours outside and If you get too bored, next time you can tell your brother to take her girlfriend to go to an arcade saloon or something

[alyssa4ever]

Lol princeofmadness lol we dont have a lot of arcades around lol but i know what you meant. I thought that was funny. And its not like i am inside all the time. He usually takes me to gymnastics a lot so he has a lot of time to his own. But i will talk to him either tomarrow or some other time next week and tell you guys what the outcome is. I hope its a peaceful one.

[Azunite]

Well by arcade I actually wanted to mean anywhere outside the house where you can kill time

[alyssa4ever]

I know man. I was joking with you :D