Partially out??

[KillerKing]

Hi,

I was just wondering if anyone has been able to be like secretly bi but without EVERYONE knowing? The reason i ask is because i think i am actually bi. I thought i was bi-curious as in i couldn't have feelings for a boy but i could have sexual relations with one but about two days ago i went to alton towers with a few friends and i saw this what i believe gay couple, and i thought it was really cute the way they were with each other and i kind of wanted that. Meaning i think i've realised i could have feelings for another boy and i could go out with one but i wouldn't everyone knowing in any way, like, i couldn't go around in a public place just forcing it in people's faces that we're together but... i could with a girl... And i wouldn't want girls to think o he's bi and probably more interested in guys because i am quite camp.

:(

So yeah, is it possible to have those kind of relationships (if i ever did get one) without flaunting it around everwhere because everytime i saw them hugging or whatever. i just .. oooo i just wanted that so much where as before, i used to get jealous when i saw straight couples.

If this makes sense then please any adivce!

Thanks peeps

[DanielBoy]

Yup, I am like that too. I am talking with a pen pal who is bi, and we are thinking of starting a long distance thing, and this would be the easiest way to have a secret same sex relationship. I personally don't believe in hiding your special someone from the world, but I do think it is okay to do during high school, and I plan on being 100% about being bi when I start college. I have told a few friends about my sexuality, and it is working out fine. I suggest not trying to get any in person thing going unless the other person feels the same way, because I don't think too many people are going to want to hide you. :P

I hope I helped. :D

[Oren]

I dated this guy for a few months before anyone heard...it's easy enough to say no because people will believe you. After a while we didn't care anymore. It is very possible and not hard to do. People won't know unless YOU want them to.