Ugh

[tomboysk8r1314]

Ugh i know ive posted someother stuff like this before but i cant get over it.

I read an old thread on here about what kinda of girls guys liked. Nothing really fit what i would be. 100% tomboy to the bone kinda girl. Im starting to feel like this is hopeless for me......it seems that guys just want girls who are well girls. While me, im not really that kinda girl, i know apparently "too much" about sports, videogames, and a bunch of other i guess guy activities.

I do have great friends who tell me that some guy will like me but i just dont feel like that will ever happen. Any advice on how to i dont know, be more attractive to guys without me having to change my tomboyishness? Cuz i really do love being a tomboy.

[Azunite]

Well I am not a shallow person but most of the boys won't have a nice idea for tomboys.
Well it feels quite good when I see a girl quickscoping me in MW2, maybe you will meet a boy who will be very happy you do boy things, maybe you will play footbal better than him, maybe you will own him with your level 100 battlemage.
By the way, in Turkey, if a girl knows the term meaning of "offside" that girl is considered a godess :)

So, for the time being you should get it over with dear, you are a girl. That is written on your DNA, why should boys think else?

[DanielBoy]

Most guys dream is a girl who will love sports, and games. This is going to be really shallow, but for a guy to like a girl, it starts with looks, so if you wear tom boy cloths, they are not going to be interested long enough to get to know you. Also, allot of guys automatically think girls with a tom boyish style and look are gay. I really don't mean any of that in a bad way, just letting you know. If you dress like a prissy girl, and put up a little of a front about it, you will find a guy who will get to know you well enough to like your personality, which most guys would. I personally find that I am bi because I like a guys personality and I like being with somebody else who has a very similar personality as me. Again, I am just putting some facts out there about guys in general, and I am not trying to insult anybody. :P

I hope I helped. :D

[Azunite]

Well I dont think a girl who plays video games a lot, for me, I just want her to hug me, that's all...

[tomboysk8r1314]

Yeah i know they prefer the more girly looking girls but a few guys have called me pretty... I just dont know, i get called lesbian all the time but im really boy crazy :P
I used to go to a private school so maybe its just the guys there idk....

Its just i see all my pretty, girlier, friends having guys googling at them while im shooting hockey pucks into the garage door. Its starting to bum me out

[Oren]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being yourself. There's lots of people out there so don't let a poll get in your way. Don't feel like it will never happen because you have the rest of your life ahead of you. FYI I dont like girls who spend an hour each day doing their hair. It's a waste of time.

[Azunite]

Of course boys will like girl girls because they will wear short skirts, and will wear cleavage lol.
But seriusly it is no problem IMO
Invalid is right, some girls are stupid enought to spend their hours ona 2-hours-lasting makeup.
Meanwhile boys can finish some games and do some sports

[misery_business]

Don't try and change yourself for some one to like you, some guys are shallow but some aren't and they are the ones that are the best because they won't care what you like and what you do because they will like you for that :)

[Azunite]

I have a close friend who plays football well, loves Medal of HOnor and Bad COmpany 2, and she is a girl.
She is quite pretty, her body is nice but like you, she's a little tomboy.
Here's an advice. When there is a party or something ( that's when boys are all aroused lol ) wear nice girl clothes and they will notice how beautiful are you, and they won't care anymore if you wear boy clothes next day eh?

[misery_business]

wear nice girl clothes and they will notice how beautiful are you, and they won't care anymore if you wear boy clothes next day eh?

I don't agree with this at all, so they only notice her when she's all girly and preety, but she's not like that because the boys won't know shes a tomboy and sure boys would go for her but then shes gonna go back to being a tomboy and boys will probably care.
You just have to be yourself when it comes to this, whats the point of trying to being some one different, if they don't love you for who you are then their not worth it :)

[Azunite]

I just meant that boys will be able to notice him. But on second thought you may be right idk.
Still, I think if boys see you in elegant girl clothes once, they will be stunned I think. Well I am a boy and...

[tomboysk8r1314]

Haha well for a dare my friend made me wear a vneck cut top with a cami and a lot of my guy friends told me that the guy i like was talking about my cleavage... Soooooo yeah. And you're right about just being pacient and waiting for the guy who will love me for me. It just seems a little hard right now, but im 13 i got a long ways to go still :). Thanks you guys i feel a lot more confident now :D

[Azunite]

Now go get 'em!

[tomboysk8r1314]

Haha well new school new guys.... thanks all! :D:D:D