Best Friend or...

[Azunite]

So, usually we all end up falling in love with our best friend now.
There is a girl ( the one I always mention ) and she has been my best friend since childhood. When other girls said bad things about me she sometimes stood up ( but then she usually became overproud of it lol ), but eventually we were never able to have simple going-outs like cinemas or meals like friends ( lol but once I stayed over her summer house )
Anyway, many times I have shown her that I love her and said other stupid things, she always forgave me but now I wish to take a big step, I want to ask her out.
If she denies, it will be over ( that is the high percentage ). Her family and her little sisters adore me but,,, her? IDK

[misery_business]

I have the same problem, but it's harder for me cause she's a girl too -.-

You could like just go out as friends and take her to see a movie or something, then walk around a park and maybe then just hold her hand and tell her that she's an amazing friend blah blah blah and ask her out,
But if you don't wan to risk your friendship and you feel that this is gonna ruin it i suggest just leave it.
Good luck :)!

[Azunite]

Thanks for the reply but, well , I think if I do nothing I will lose her as a friend anyway, since the schools closed I didn't see her and we met very rarely...

[KillerKing]

I was about to say don't risk losing such a good friendship but if your not going to see her much and you think your're going to start drifting away and are prepared for that... What have you got to lose?

I think you get my point.

[Azunite]

Yes, but,, I don't know people, best leave this..

[DanielBoy]

I can see you have strong feeling for her. You need to tell her about your feelings, and ask. Sometimes you need to go out on the limb, and sometimes the limb might break. If she doesn't feel the same way, then that is that, but I highly doubt she will stop being your friends; a friendship with that much history will not end because of something like that, if anything it should flatter her. Give it a try, and make sure she knows that you don't want awkwardness if she doesn't want what you want.

I hope I helped. :D

[Azunite]

Lol man you end all your sentences in the same way lol :D
anyway, I made her sad so many times, and our relationship is tied to a very thin rope now. I know she will say "I want us to stay friends"
and I know things wont be the same. I tried diffrent girls but it wont work. My parents and few of my friends say that she is not beautiful but half of the boys used to love her in school and now, I have no idea why I am loving her.