Should I go for her again??

[lightkun]

A few months ago, I started dating this girl. Things where awesome and it was such an intense connection. It wasn't just puppy love.

You know when people say "I can see us down the road getting married." well it was weird because we actually felt that way, we didn't just say it. And for someone to feel this way in their mid teens, it's gotta be something. Right? She was my savior, I stopped partying, kicked drugs (nothing serious, just reefer) and really took a serious look at how I lived.

Eventually, she broke up with me. She said it was because "we didn't make time for each other" which is partly true. I had hap ki do (martial arts), was involved with a band and she had her cheerleading and helped her mom run a business in our town. So I can see where we drifted a little. "let's tale a break" she said. I could tell she still liked me.

So I would totally go for her again, but I'm afraid that this might happen again and there is only so much punishment I can take. When we "took a break", I totally lost it. I kept thinking it was my fault and her friend who wanted me to herself (which I didn't know at the time) poisoned me into thinking these lies about here (mostly didn't believe) but she said that Sarah was telling people that she didn't like me that much.

I really don't want this to happen again. What do I do?

[Azunite]

If you are going to date again, you may have to be a little romantic maybe? That'S just she wants.
If Sarah didn't want you, then why did she date you. Probably she stills loves you but wants to forget you because of this incident. You may have to beg her a bit but don't become her dog now.
Sarah does that to forget you so you must make an immideate move to her IMO.
Can you tell me what kind of things you have done while you were dating?

[lightkun]

Like sexually or what sort or activities we did?

[Azunite]

Yeah that sort

[lightkun]

Well as far as sex, We got to third base and almost went to a home run. (which is weird because most people I talk to the usually have full blown sex before they give and receive head) and as far as activities, we went to movies, hung out at each others houses, we went to some church events, the usual sort of things.

[Contra]

Well, about that friend who is poisoning you with lies, I think she's just jealous, so don't believe her.
About the relationship, you should go for it, because if you felt that good and it was so meaningful to you, you should give it another go. But then, try to spend more time with her, and like AnoymousMan said, be more romantic, because that may be the fault in your relationship.

Good luck :)

[Azunite]

Can anyone explain me what includes the third step?

[Contra]

Can anyone explain me what includes the third step?

Third base refers to tactile stimulation of the naked genitals with oral sex and/or fingering.

Wikipedia ftw :P

[lightkun]

In short, it's when you give or receive head.

[Azunite]

Yeah lol
I thought that wouldn't be made seperatly ( like it would be before sex or something )

[lightkun]

Lol, it's all good. I didn't really know what all the bases where until recently.

[Azunite]

Well what are you planning to do now mac?

[lightkun]

I think I'm going to try to get back with her again. And maybe we can hit a home run ;) but even if we don't get to that very soon, I still would be glad to be with her again.

[Azunite]

Man, you should. Finding girls isn't an easy job you know and I think yu people are quite attached to each other.
Hey can you keep me updated of the girl's actions by PM me or something, I will track your progres and I really wish to help you!
SAVING PRIVATE RYAN!

[lightkun]

You know what I just pictured... Lol

[Azunite]

Sorry?

[lightkun]

Lol, I'm on my iPod right now and I thought this was the facebook app. (there is an app for these forums) I didn't mean to post that.

[Azunite]

Okay anyway, I hope you will update me with your progress

[lightkun]

Okay anyway, I hope you will update me with your progress

Sure. But I think I will keep the details to myself if u don't mind. Lol

[Azunite]

Well of course, you wouldn't wish me to give details. But by progress I mean like you dating, you asked her, you did again, her friends still lying, McDonalds or Burger King ? lol

[lightkun]

Yeah of course.

[DanielBoy]

Very complicated relationship. If you two REALLY love each other, then it should work out, a relationship is about compromise. If there is no change, time wise, I do see the exact same outcome. Both of you need to make compromise in your schedule to make time for each other, or the problem that caused the break up will still be there.

I hope I helped. :D

[lightkun]

We must learn from our mistakes.