Tired of it :( confused...

[Dunce]

Hey I'm really confused...
Ok right, long story short I'm 16, used to be straight, then was gay, but as soon as i accepted that i may like girls I went off them... so I am utterly confused.
So I'm keeping my options open, I was at a summer camp this year and my friend who is a boy asked me out and I made the mistake of saying yes. I felt sick everytime I was around him, it just wasnt right. I adored him as a friend but thats all. This was sort of weird because well... this isnt solid proof I dont like boys right? Maybe I just dont like him. But in reality if you're friends with a guy and he says he likes you 90% of girls would start liking him back not the opposite.
And I had a little crush on my friend, who is a girl. It was nothing huge but feelings are definitely there(I miss her so much :/). But you see, I did definitely go off girls, I wouldnt label myself gay for that reason. I dont look at girls and I rarely have crushes.
I used to think that I would fancy any girl, doesnt matter who, before I would fancy a guy but now there's no difference at all.
I have the occasional crush on guys but they're only very small, not as big as the crush I have on my friend even though thats not huge.
Does this make me bi or even asexual...? Or is this too complicated to label? haha
I know hormones are everywhere during teen years but I feel like I dont even have hormones because the crushes i have are so small and rare... its been going on about three years...

[Azunite]

Well maybe you are not in that %90 :)

Try with another boy, see if you like him. However, from what you have told, you might be gay. Don't tire yourself with this. Have your little crushes, see what you can make of them, girls or boys, you decide

[misery_business]

From what i see I think your bi but more attraced to girls.

[Dunce]

I did try with another boy and he was one of my tiny crushes, it didnt really develop because he lives far away. There's no boys that would go out with me around whre i live...
But yeah I cant decide, as I said I used to be gay, but when I decided that I was I stopped liking girls. If I decide on one it'll change again, lol.
I just want to know if this will go on forever... its been so long that i've had to deal with this confusion.
I want to fall in love, not be still figuring myself out when i'm 60 years old...

[DanielBoy]

Here is my though, you are mentally confused. You are still in the process of figuring out your sexuality, so framing yourself in with a label may confuse you more. I suggest keep trying with both sexes, don't label yourself, and after a few relationships, you will find who you like, who you don't like, and you will have a clearer view on what you are. Also, it is very rare to be asexual, so I really don't see you being that. Just give it time, don't constrain yourself, experiment with both sexes in relationships, and give it all a chance. Go into it with an open mind. :D

I hope I helped. :D

[Dunce]

I am mentally confused haha, really I'm not very mentally stable... thanks you did help (: thanks guys, you all helped (:

[Oren]

I'm like this too. I did about the same thing as you explained; its hard because I like very few people and the people I like are because of their personality. It's hard to judge if you really are attracted to one or the other genders sometimes because there are lots of people in both that you absolutely are not attracted to, and sometimes you suppress these feelings without even realizing it. Just do what you think is right and follow your feelings, not what others say and think about you. Be yourself and see where your heart takes you.