The same old problem..

[Azunite]

Hello everybody,

I first found out this site like a month ago and finally I decided to join here after I saw your replies. I hope this forum is not dead lol :D

Anyway, so I have the same problem with others in this forum.
I am fifteen now and well, never had a GF. Now in a month I will be starting high school and I want to make a brand new beggining. I had problems with even communicating with girls, I only had like 2-3 girl friends and eventually I screewed up everything by falling into love with one of them and I have no idea if we are friends like before.
Anyway that is not my problem. I went to a very social hotel (Club Med) last week and I was so shy that I couldn't say even "Hi" to any girl!
I am a funny man, I draw pictures very well ( which I sometimes use this to attract attention :D), I think I have a very nice looking face but I have to get rid of this "shy" thing.
Psyhically, I have hazel eyes, light brown hair, I am tall and, well, I have few extra kilos ( or pounds whatever)
Once I start dating I think I wont let her down ( I dont even know what to do when dating anyways ) but the beggining is impossible for me!
Well I wrote a lot of things, so I expect a lot of answers :)

[Contra]

Well, answering to the fact that you haven't had a girlfriend yet, you shouldn't worry about it, because me neither >.<, and I'm perfectly fine. You can't rush anything.
About the second part, you must act naturally, start a random conversation or just say "Hi", don't worry about the consequences and most of all, don't be afraid to be rejected! Afterwards, you have got to make yourself look interesting, ask things about her, talk about yourself and a relationship will grow eventually.

I hope I was helpful! :)

[Deathwingo0o]

I'm 17 n no gf cuz I'm in love wif another boy? I'm bi...

[Azunite]

Well, at least you have a mate lol.

Well in a social place, saying "Hi" may be okay but then I don't know what to do. She will say hi and it will end, I don't want to tease her by asking a lot of questions.
And well it is eventually all about asking a girl to be your GF among your friends but well my number of female friends are numbered so I don't wish to lose them.
From the first grade, I used to write love letters to my best girl friend, 2 years ago I learned that she stills keeps the letters, poems and little silly presents I gave her next to her bed somewhere. But for the last 1-2 years she has been so cold for me and I have made some bad things I dont know and I made her a lot sad this year and our relationship lies in mystery.
About rushing, well I look around and I just want to at least be very close to a girl, like being one of his best friends or whatever.
In my friend group, many boys hug girls but I never even hugged a girl before ( The girl I mentioned actually hugged me once when we made peace after I made her upset )
And now we are in seperate schools and it is a pain in the ass to find girl friends for me.

[Ender]

You gotta start off by talking to girls, and just be yourself, you'll find someone :) Theres no rush though, dont get desperate. :)

[DanielBoy]

Girls love nothing more than a confident guy. You need to just blow off the shyness and get out there. A few things that can help, wearing red helps guys to feel more confident. Also practicing how to ask a girl out, or how to make small talk helped. Just get out there, I think just about every guy gos through this, just be proud of what you have and who you are. Get It Done! :D

I hope I helped. :D