i worried about my friend

[ackmedsgirl666]

so i have this friend. she is sexually active and she has never had a pap test before and she is refusing to get one done.
she recently went away and the full two weeks she had her period and then it ended. she just got it back the other day and i worried about her because she is bleeding really heavily non stop and she still refuses to go to a doctor. i really want the best for her and want her to get help, but shes refusing, she has had sex on several occasions( i dunno if she used a condom) and her dad also raped her at the age of three( i dunno what to make of this)
all i want is for her to go to a fucking doctor
and she also told me that she doesn;t want to go to a fucking doctor and she doesn't care is she gets cancer
i dunno what to do
HELP!!!!

[YesterdaysNews]

The most you can do for your friend is try and persuade her to see a doctor, she could have an infection. Just do your best to express your concern for her, you can't force her to go but you can offer your support. Let her know that you just want her to be healthy. Good luck :)

[ackmedsgirl666]

thankyou for the advice but i mean she scared i guess probably because of what her dad did to her and she might have something and is scared to find out
is that possible too?

[starrburst]

I think she's just scared, just try to calm her down and try to persuade her, perhaps offer to go with her...i don't know, anything really...it's not good for her to be bleeding that much =\

[SockzInABox]

I won't worry to much at this point because she could just be having a really heavy period but if it gets worse I would sit her down and nicely talk to her about it and tell her how much you care and just want her to get checked just in case. On a side note, her dad is a scum bag who deserves to be in prison if he isn't already!

[ackmedsgirl666]

I won't worry to much at this point because she could just be having a really heavy period but if it gets worse I would sit her down and nicely talk to her about it and tell her how much you care and just want her to get checked just in case. On a side note, her dad is a scum bag who deserves to be in prison if he isn't already!
lol too bad hes not
hes just not allowed near her or any oher teen girls her age just for that factor which sucks
but hey she hates her dads guts since he did that to her
i tried to sit her down and she is still refusing
should i maybe ask her if she would feel more comfortable if i was in the room with her???

[xXxIMissUxXx]

What I would do Kenzie is if you can drive pick her up and say your going to the store of a restaurant....then instead of doing that take her to a doctor...Or if your unable to get a ride or drive to the destination presuade her,bribe her until she gets it done...Tell her that your her friend and you care if she gets cancer our stds or whatevr she could get...best of luck Kenzie!!!!!!!Hope that she will do whats right and best for her!!!