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HellHound
August 4th, 2010, 10:44 AM
Well i have this problem that has afected both the trust in myself and my "reputation".Every time im sad or someone pisses me off tears come out of my eyes.I dont actually cry but it just happens and people think im crying.For a guy 15 yo that is a serious matter.What can i do?

Scarface
August 4th, 2010, 11:22 AM
Well first of all, when someone gets overwhelmed with anger or a certain feeling in a very strong way like you described it can trigger a number of things. It can sometimes make you tear up some veins show more visibly, some faces turn red. It's just a very strong emotion and it shows differently in some people. Like when I get angry and I know how I get when I'm angry I can be quite the asshole so I walk away so I can have alone time.

Maybe when you know you're starting to get angry at someone the best thing to do instead of getting wound up about it is to walk away. That way not only can you have your alone time to cool off, but also to let you have some time to think a little. Even though I see nothing wrong with a boy crying if you feel strongly about it I would try the alone time thing that way no one sees you and also to have your time to reflect.

I hope things work out for you, if you ever need someone to talk to I'm always here VM/PM me anytime.

HellHound
August 4th, 2010, 12:58 PM
Well thanx,the thing is g allready do this but example i am in class and i get angry at a teacher i loose my temper and...end up looking stupid.I just wish i could express myself the way i want,without being judged wrong