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[XpopularX]

Right now I am bi courious and wnt to make a choice when school starts. The problem is that is its impossible to tell my friends. There not understanding about such things. The only ppl that know r my sister and my friend thats a girl whos bi. I told my sister because were close and shes cool but the rest of my family is homopobic. Everytime I try to tell my friends i kinda lead into the topic. I bring up a gay person that go's to our school and I get there opinion,then a bi person and if the convo dose not go well, the talk ends. somewere I feel that because we are friends they will understand even though they won't. I don't know wht to do,it just sucks.:confused:

(don't tell me, be true to yourself and do whts right, find whts deep inside and everything is going to be ok, im sick of all tht bull)

[guacamole24]

I'm not going to tell you to be true to yourself and look inside yourself. I know how hard this is. I've never even come close to coming out to my friends. The only thing that you can do is either decide to identify as straight or decide to tell your friends. You're going to have to do it eventually, if you decide to. So waiting for the "right time" is going to start having to be a little more general. If you don't want the other stuff that people say to make you feel better momentarily, then that's all that I can say. Good luck, though. :)

[Deathwingo0o]

Just make sure you hook up with the right one. Don't get too hasty. I'm bi too but waiting for the right moment to tell him xD. Good luck!

[Hoshwaa]

I've noticed that you are only 13, and have years of horrible hormones tormenting your brain. Many teenagers go through curious stages, and before you think of coming out to your friends, you may want to wait and give yourself time to be clear about what you want. However, if you are sure of who you are, i wish you all my luck. One posotive of coming out is that you can find out who your true friends are. Best wishes mate.

[DanielBoy]

Hey bro, I have kind of the same issue right now. I am really confused on what I am still, I am at least curious, and maybe bi, and have had sex with ALLOT of girls. I started talking to someone recently, and he gave me the courage to start coming out to certain people, like my best friend. I don't care who your friends are, but the person you consider to be your best friend will not throw all of your history away because you are bi. I made the choice not to be open about it until college for the simple reason that in high school there is so much stigma and misunderstanding related with sexuality, and the idea that if you are not straight then you are gay. College I think is going to be the best place because everybody is an adult, and little more mature and accepting than people in high school. Again, I suggest picking friends who you are close enough to, and have enough history with, and letting them know. I also suggest stipulating that you don't like them in that way, the shell shock can make some people a little uncomfortable for a while, but they will get over it if they are really your friend.

The decision is yours, if you want to come out, go ahead, if not, nobody judges you for not, then don't. Do what you feel is right.

I hope I helped. :D