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green
August 4th, 2010, 06:16 AM
Hi hello so I'm currently going out with a girl and I love her dearly. But I've started to have feelings for two other girls in one of my classes. I don't know what I should do! Should I talk to the other two girls to evaluate how they feel or just leave it be?

Harley Quinn
August 4th, 2010, 06:18 AM
You're with a girl already, if you love her you won't want any other girl, so I don't think you should talk to them, but rather you should stick by your girlfriend.

Kaius
August 4th, 2010, 06:24 AM
You're with a girl already, if you love her you won't want any other girl, so I don't think you should talk to them, but rather you should stick by your girlfriend.

This ^

If you're questioning whether you should talk to other girls you apparently love as well as your girlfriend, without even knowing these girls I think you should re-evaluate your perception of love, because if you love this girl as you say you do you won't want anyone else but her at that time.

green
August 4th, 2010, 06:27 AM
Yea I don't love them I have feelings or them. It's not like I'm just gonna go and gtfo and hang with other girls. I don't even know if they like me. Jus' sayin.And I am really good friends with them I just want to see how they feel about me.

Harley Quinn
August 4th, 2010, 06:34 AM
But why would you need to know, if you already with someone, what someone else feels for you wouldn't matter.. unless you wanted to cheat, and like you said you're not "gtfo and hang" so I'm still saying no, because you don't actually need to know what they feel, if they want to tell you, then that's okay, there's just no point chasing them. Then again, it's your choice , so yknow.

Paladino
August 4th, 2010, 11:34 AM
Tbh, If you do love your girl you shouldnt give two fucks about the other girls and you shouldnt really care about there feelings for you.

Kahn
August 4th, 2010, 12:15 PM
Hi hello so I'm currently going out with a girl and I love her dearly. But I've started to have feelings for two other girls in one of my classes. I don't know what I should do! Should I talk to the other two girls to evaluate how they feel or just leave it be?

Love is a lot more special than feelings. To love someone is to respect them, and understand them. To be there for them when no one else is there. To have feelings is to think about them in a way you wouldn't normally think about someone. It isn't exactly love. It's interest.

Stick with the girl you are going out with. It's the best decision.

DanielBoy
August 6th, 2010, 07:23 PM
Unless you know the other two girls REALLY well, and have allot of history with them, you don't love them, you just are feeling puppy love. Sorry. I can believe you love the chick you are dating though. :P

I hope I helped. :D