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dec_1892
August 3rd, 2010, 01:58 PM
I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this, so move it if it needs to be moved.
So, I have huge problems talking to girls. Outside of a friendship level. I'm just really shy. I have a lot of female friends, bu I'm sure Kobe of them would see me as anything other than a friend. Recently I any to a summer camp where I met a really cute girl. I spent most of my time watching her from as far a distance as possible. DX I want to be a little moe courageous in that area. Some flirting tips would be nice.
Thanks or your help!:)
misery_business
August 3rd, 2010, 03:37 PM
Instead of being all flirty right away you can just start with a hi and just be nice, try to get closer to her and get to know eachother before you get into a relationship.
good luck :)
Jess
August 3rd, 2010, 04:25 PM
get to know her first, that's the first step :)
Good luck!
Contra
August 3rd, 2010, 09:08 PM
First, you need to just start a conversation with a simple "hi", then you must be nice and know what to say, like asking her what she likes and getting to know her.
You can't rush it, just let it flow then.
kyle95
August 4th, 2010, 05:51 PM
Try being spontaneous - don't plan. Planning is sorta like creeping. You don't have to tell a girl you're shy, they can tell. Start with a simple convo, talk about your cat/dog or a squirrel in the park, anything that'll make her smile and feel at ease around you. If you really fancy her, tell her - but don't expect her to jump into your arms. Girls like to know why, so have an answer.
Paladino
August 4th, 2010, 05:53 PM
Just talk to her and get to know her, just be yourself then start flirting with her, make her laugh, joke with her.
Shortkid
August 4th, 2010, 07:38 PM
Start a conversation with her and make it all about her. What music she likes, how cool her hair or clothes r and other such stuff. B4 long she will be wanting to make out if u just keep the focus on her.
DanielBoy
August 6th, 2010, 07:11 PM
First, don't flirt with people you have already established as friends.
Second, you need to be dating or the relationship needs to be going that way naturally for you to flirt.
Third, be confident, keep eye contact, and smile.
Fourth, flirting is basically joking around, like you would with guy friends, but without the rough physical contact and the dirty jokes.
Fifth, making each other laugh is what flirting is all about, and if you are good at that, you are perfect.
Sixth, if you think you two know each other well enough, you can bring gentile contact into it, but only if you are actually dating.
I hope I helped. :D
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