Prude!

[Babobobo]

Well, I have a problem see.

I'm 15 years old

Whenever I'm around my family, (parents especially) I act REALLY prude and a bit 'in denial' (not what you think, I mean very deniable of my love towards women.) For example if the topic of hot women come up, I'll try to change the subject, or when my sibling tells me I should get a girlfriend, I totally deny it and ask to change the subject. Or even when I think about it alone in my head, I think I'm a sick person.

But on the other hand, Whenever I'm out at school, with friends, or not around my family, I act much more masculine and always think about girls I like just in my head. In my head I always think "Oh, so and so and I would be so good together." or like "So and so is so hot" But whenever I think about those things in my head around family I feel really gross and scold myself in my head hahaha.

So what does this seem like to you? Why do I do this, is it normal? Do you feel the same? HELP MEE D:

[SWMG]

Hey yeah totally i like when they get the topic i try to change it and stuff and with my friends the contrary so dont worry

[ian est la bombe]

I'm the same way. Talking to family about girls or puberty and stuff is just awkward to me. With friends it just seems easier because they are more like you and your age.

[DanielBoy]

I think everybody is like that, or at least for a while. You really are not comfortable with your family thinking of you in that light, and don't even want to bring the subject up. I am still like that, but it is supposed to wear off. There is nothing wrong with it, sometimes it is just best to keep family out of your relationships because they can make things really awkward.

I hope I helped. :D

[Billy15]

Just a guess lol but around friends (away from the house) that kind of talk is the norm among most teens but around parents and sib's, it's not. Your obviously straight but I'm secretly gay (family/friends don't know) but when my little brother hassles me about getting a girl friend, i get embarrassed and usually tell him to shut up lol, so I think thats pretty normal really. Some thoughts and convos just don't click around family.

[Judas]

Maybe it's because you're generally more open to your peers about relationships and stuff? Because it's just awkward to talk about that with parents lol :)

[Rex99]

Yea I'm the same way, like if my parents make lame jokes about sex and stuff I usually walk away speechless, but around my friends I'd stay in the conversation.

[nevertoreturn]

yeah, i do kind of the same thing

[bestever]

yea, I always bring up the convo with my friends, but i get all weird when it comes to talking about that stuff with my family

[Jaredm]

every teenage boy is pretty much like this, when im by myself or with friends i think dirty thoughts and then around family i try and avoid them

[patrick99]

nothin is rong with u why would u care but aroud the family thinking sexually no

[Fourth Dimension]

im totally like that i keep my love life hidden from my family cuz they cause problems

[zander]

yeah i am not into my family being involved in my sexual thoughts or thoughts of dating, but like billy15 i am secretly gay and not out to my family so i could not talk about what i would want to talk about anyway