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Aηdy
September 26th, 2006, 02:15 PM
If you dont want to read all of this you can just read the bottom, but i would prefer it it you read all of it because it will make you be able to give a better answer ;)

Hey there, :P

So here goes, I know this girl called Krystal, I've been frinds with her for about a year now, and in May this year, I told her, by text, that i really liked her, and she said she liked me too. But for some reason we never got together. But anyway, recently we have been talking quite a lot and i have developed feelings for her, and a couple of weeks ago I asked her how she felt about me, and at first she said she wasn't sure, but then later told me she just likes me as a friend. But over the last couple of weeks a have noticed, I don't know how to describe it really, I've noticed that like at school if i go past her she will smile at me, and just the way she talks to me. So, I'm going to see her in town on Saturday, and I just want some advice on when i go to see her. Shes one of the only girls i feel relaxed when I'm with her, so i want to know what to say like when I walk up to her in town where we are going to meet. Also should I ask her out? I know its probally hard for you to say and perhaps i should see how it goes on Saturday. And just generally how I should act, well i know I should just be myself and i can do that around her ok, its more a case of what to say. And lastly what I should do when I say bye to her, like should I give her a hug or not ect.

I know im probally over-worrying a bit here :) But I'm not nervous about it and im looking forward to it, I just basicly want to know what do do when i meet her and when i say bye


Thanks very much guys and girls :)

Andyy.

(Probally my longest post ever lol)

~Cookie~
September 26th, 2006, 02:29 PM
Just act like yourself.If you act diffrent then she will know summin is up.You could hint towards the fact that you still like her without having to ask her out.Then you have time to decide if she feels the same way.I was in your shoes once with my best friend.It turned out we both REALLY liked each other:wub: .I wish you the best of luck ^_^:yes:

Aηdy
September 26th, 2006, 02:35 PM
Thanks for your reply :). Shes going to France in a few weeks too, and she asked me for my address so she could send me a post card :D

Thanks for your advice, sounds good to me :D

Aηdy
September 27th, 2006, 01:37 AM
Thanks :) I'm really looking forward to it now :P Shes the first person I've really liked that I'm like not nervous around, I can be myself when I'm with her :) Is that a sign of something good?

Aηdy
September 27th, 2006, 10:44 AM
This is goig to be like a dream come true if it goes alright :D I really cant wait, saw her in science class today :P

Aηdy
September 29th, 2006, 03:24 PM
Spoke to her last nught, not seeing her tomorrow now because shes got to go looking for wedding dresses with her sister, but we are going on sunday instead :D Just means i have to wait another day!! never mind lol.

Aηdy
October 1st, 2006, 09:22 AM
what a fuck up :(

Aηdy
October 1st, 2006, 12:52 PM
well i was walking down town in high spirit of the day, looking forward to seeing her, then as i turned the corner to the place where we said to meet, she was there but she was with her best friend (also my x-gf from 2 or 3 weeks ago). so i walked acroos to them and not alot was said (it was very awkward) so we stared walking round town and still nothing was said. they were walking quite fast aswell, as if tehy were trying to get away from me, then they walked into a shop and i walked in aswell, but then i walked out agin and waited outside because i couldn't see them. so they came back out and krystal said to me (i cant remember exactly now because i was kinda pissed off) ..anway she said something like.. oh i cant remember at all now. grr this fustraets me.. it was something about she didnt want to like go out with me bcos it would hurt her best m8s feelings cos we only split a few weeks ago (even tho it only lasted a week and i spoke to her about twice). so i thought fair enough.. so then we carried on walking and they went into another shop, this time i stayed outside, played on my phone for a bit then walked off, cos i felt like they didnt want to be with me. but then they followed me so i stopped and kystal said to me "im sorry i fell really bad" i said somethink like "yeah its ok, you were just being a good mate) and after some silence she said something like " its not fair cos you keep likin me then charli then me then charli (charli is her mate she was with). so at this piont i didnt know what to do, bcos i felt like they didnt want to be with me but they followed me. so we stood there for about 15 mins, they were talking but i just stood there. then they said were going to the meadows now. so i just followed them, but they went to the skate park instead and i said "i thought we were going to the meadows" charli said " oh we changed our mind" and as we got past the skate park krystal said "how long are you going to follow us for??" in like a vioce that sounded like she was annoyed sorta.. so i didnt loko at them or say a word, and i just walked off. holy shit thats long.