Mixed signals?

[tomboysk8r1314]

Holy crap...im so confused right now. As usual i was texting yet another one of my guy friends...no big deal right? We were talking about COD and how we should verse eachother one time when out of no where he sends a message saying "I love you" . I waited a few seconds to see if he would send a back up message with a just kidding. It didnt come so i decided to send him a wtf lol. HE then sent the jk and i was like ok alright hes kidding around again. I thought nothing of it until he sent it like 4 more times throughout our conversation, and he didnt have an explanation on why he sent it and he alwasy said jk after wards but seriously 5 times? Can someone tell me what the heck is going on here?!

P.S- This is one of my guys friends that i would never in a million years would go out with...so if he does like me i really dont want to break him heart :(

[Rex99]

COD? As in Call of Duty? No wonder he loves you. Have you talked in person since the incidence? That would definitely force him to get the elephant out of the room and explain what he was doing.

[misery_business]

You can't really tell if he really does like you because when you read the text you may think he's serious,he might just be joking, I think you should talk to him about it and make things clear, plus feelings don't really travel well through texts so you can never be sure.

[ILOVEYOU]

Well, i think he does like you, after all the "jk" texts, he has sent you "i love you" for 5 freaking times, thats not a joke anymore. if i were you i would take it seriously and talk to him about it.

[The Red Devil]

In person, just casually ask, 'hey when we were texting the other night, and you said "I love you" what did you mean?' just make it casual and relaxed and he will feel more comfortable telling what his feelings are, because he wont feel like you are pressuring him into giving a particular answer.

[tomboysk8r1314]

COD? As in Call of Duty? No wonder he loves you. Have you talked in person since the incidence? That would definitely force him to get the elephant out of the room and explain what he was doing.

Haha i guess you didnt know i was a tomboy (even though its in my username) so videogames, sports, and other stuff thats guyish isnt unnormal for me :) and no we havent talked in person about it cuz we dont hang out often. So hopefully it isnt me he likes cuz he knows i really really like this other guy and i know that he really likes this other girl....its all to confusing :P

[DanielBoy]

Guys are not very good with being discrete, so when we do, we make a statement and try and see what type of response we get back. He might have been joking, he might not have been joking, you just need to talk to him. Make sure he knows your feelings, and make sure you tell him he is a close friend, but not like that. :)

I hope I helped. :D