Coming out(Sex)

[oscarlichen]

Okay so, anyway this goes along with the story of my two other posts called coming out. So there's another kid that's also bi and we really like eachother and he said when he comes over were gonna like, give bj's and stuff. So anyway, i'm getting nervous that he won't like my body or something or that i'll do it wrong because he already had sex with another dude and I think he'll be dissapointed at my size or something. I need some support?

[nick]

Oscar, just believe in yourself. If its your first time dont be shy to admit that, to be honest you are very young to be getting into that. No one in their right mind expects a 13 year old to have adult equipment, anyone who judges you by your penis size is just a jerk and not worth worrying about. Its nerve wracking undressing for a partner for the first time, no way round that, but would you care if your partner wasnt perfect? Honestly it doenst matter, you will be fine.

[Captor K]

It's understandable to be nervous, but know that not all people are judgmental and shallow. If this guy really likes you, as you say, then I am sure you have very little to worry about. Ignore the fact that he has a little experience with sex before - it has no place in what may take place between the two of you. It should be an intimacy that belongs to the two of you alone, and let no other possible outside influence, insecurity included, rob you of that.

Have confidence. Confidence can be very sexy (not I said confidence, not cockiness). Love yourself and he will respect that - and I'm certain that he's not expecting you to have the World's Largest Penis, so don't even let those thoughts get you down. Don't worry about any awkwardness, that's simply a part of sex. Heck, welcome it. It's how the two of you will learn what each other likes and doesn't like. Communicate each other, for communication is very important in sexual exploration.

But above all, just enjoy yourself. You'll be fine.

[DanielBoy]

Don't worry about it, everybody has their first, and he won't be mad because you are a virgin. He has seen you wearing cloths, so I have a feeling he had a good idea of what your body is like before you guys set up the thing. As far as being too small, if he is around your age, shouldn't be a problem, you have time to grow. I suggest being open about it being your first time, and all of that, and having some fun! :D Good Luck!

I hope I helped. :D