realy....?

[dude14]

ok this site makes some sence but not alot. how are we supost to know stuff if things keep getting locked? maby someone wants to know something. witch they do. can we stop locking or make it so u have to be a boy to read boy stuff and a girl to read girl stuff so we can talk about it without girls knowing? and this site has no point if we cant share tecneque or personal stuff. and i cant msg people cuzz i dont have 100 posts maby some kid just needs to know one thing but cant cuz he needs to msg someone but only has 1 post. i want to talk about stuff but cant cuz it would get locked. i dont e mail cuz my mom cheks it, mabey other kids moms check there e mail or something like that. this site is the only place i can turn to and it doesnt have the real answers i need. im sure others feel the same way. can we fix this problem? like realy. i need to talk to someone..... help...

[Rutherford The Brave]

ok this site makes some sence but not alot. how are we supost to know stuff if things keep getting locked? maby someone wants to know something. witch they do. can we stop locking or make it so u have to be a boy to read boy stuff and a girl to read girl stuff so we can talk about it without girls knowing? and this site has no point if we cant share tecneque or personal stuff. and i cant msg people cuzz i dont have 100 posts maby some kid just needs to know one thing but cant cuz he needs to msg someone but only has 1 post. i want to talk about stuff but cant cuz it would get locked. i dont e mail cuz my mom cheks it, mabey other kids moms check there e mail or something like that. this site is the only place i can turn to and it doesnt have the real answers i need. im sure others feel the same way. can we fix this problem? like realy. i need to talk to someone..... help...

Rules are rules. It becomes to graphic and attracts unwanted attention. If you have a problem, you could go into the chat room and talk to a mod/gmod privetly I think. Other than that, you can't do anything.

[Iron Man]

First off, this is not a social networking site or a dating site. It is a help site. Threads get locked because they either break the rules or they are bumped. Or even the occasional op request.

[DanielBoy]

Yea bro, I saw the locked thread and it really didn't make sense why it was locked, no reference to you wanting to meet up and have sex with VT members was made, which is what that rule is in place for in the first place. I agree with you, but having open sex stories and stuff from minors opens allot of legal issues for the operators of this site. I do understand that, but the PM thing is kind of pointless; it is probably just a ploy to keep people active, but if someone needs to ask a question that is a bit iffy, that does not mean the shouldn't get an answer. What two people exchange in PMs does not place any legal liability on VT, and the feature should be open to everybody, not just those who post allot. You are very confused and really don't see any other avenue to take to get an answer to your question.

As far as the question in the post, you are still trying to discover your sexuality, and if you are attracted to girls too, you are probably just curious. As far as meeting people at school, you cannot do that without being open, so you will get judged regardless.

I hope I helped. :D

[dude14]

wait im not curios.... im strait. i never sed anything about sexuality..

[Ender]

Yea bro, I saw the locked thread and it really didn't make sense why it was locked, no reference to you wanting to meet up and have sex with VT members was made, which is what that rule is in place for in the first place. I agree with you, but having open sex stories and stuff from minors opens allot of legal issues for the operators of this site. I do understand that, but the PM thing is kind of pointless; it is probably just a ploy to keep people active, but if someone needs to ask a question that is a bit iffy, that does not mean the shouldn't get an answer. What two people exchange in PMs does not place any legal liability on VT, and the feature should be open to everybody, not just those who post allot. You are very confused and really don't see any other avenue to take to get an answer to your question.

As far as the question in the post, you are still trying to discover your sexuality, and if you are attracted to girls too, you are probably just curious. As far as meeting people at school, you cannot do that without being open, so you will get judged regardless.

I hope I helped. :D

the 100 post limit for PM's is there to help keep the cammers/pic traders out. This has been mentioned in the HQ and Suggestions forum many times.

[Nancy Boy]

first off, this is not a social networking site or a dating site. It is a help site. Threads get locked because they either break the rules or they are bumped. Or even the occasional op request.

true dat :d

[The Batman]

P101 :arrow: VTHQ

There's no use having a bunch of horny teens sharing masturbation techniques. That's not what this site is for. It's a help and advice site but we're not going to help you get your rocks off. You can still pm a member of staff if you have below 100 posts and the limit is there to cut back on the amount of people asking to cam/pic trade and it has helped a lot. Everything we do is about providing a safe environment for you guys so we might be a little strict at times but if we weren't then this site would be a lot worse.

[DanielBoy]

LOL, okay. Maybe if I read through the HQ, I would have figured that out. :D

Oh and dude14, you said something about it in the thread that got locked. You added the thing (gay, bi, straight). I must of read it wrong.

[Giles]

I do understand that, but the PM thing is kind of pointless; it is probably just a ploy to keep people active, but if someone needs to ask a question that is a bit iffy, that does not mean the shouldn't get an answer. What two people exchange in PMs does not place any legal liability on VT, and the feature should be open to everybody, not just those who post allot.


Just to say that the 100 posts needed to Pm is not a "ploy to keep people active". There's been like 20 threads in HQ over the past few weeks about it.

[nick]

The content of pms is covered by the same rules as the forums, so its against the rules to talk about stuff in pms that isnt allowed in threads.

[taylor115]

almost half of my posts usually get locked sooner or later

[Kaius]

the PM thing is kind of pointless; it is probably just a ploy to keep people active

It's to prevent camming, picture trading and illicit activities from happening. Many people join up daily for that exact purpose without acknowledging the fact 90% of the people on this forum are under age and are here looking for help. And cases in the past have given us no option but to up the anti.

A lot of threads here are locked because they break the rules. And long story short if people don't want their threads locked they need to read the rules before they post. In other cases some are locked because they're bumped (Check the date of the last post, if its over a month ago, don't post in it.)

[Jess]

well you can't really share personal stuff. that's against the rules, right?

[dude14]

the 100 post limit for PM's is there to help keep the cammers/pic traders out. This has been mentioned in the HQ and Suggestions forum many times.

wow wow wow. i never sed i was curios. im strait and i think homosexuality is rong. i didnt want to say it but i did. my post is only saying i wish i could post things and get detailed answers. like in tecneque and things lke that.i can asure u im not curios about my sexuality. im actuly kindof insulted.

[Ender]

wow wow wow. i never sed i was curios. im strait and i think homosexuality is rong. i didnt want to say it but i did. my post is only saying i wish i could post things and get detailed answers. like in tecneque and things lke that.i can asure u im not curios about my sexuality. im actuly kindof insulted.
How the hell did you get this...

the 100 post limit for PM's is there to help keep the cammers/pic traders out. This has been mentioned in the HQ and Suggestions forum many times.

From this?

Just wondering.

[Giles]

How the hell did you get this...



From this?

Just wondering.

Maybe the cam/pic trading part?
Other than that I've got no idea...

[Zero Beat]

ok this site makes some sence but not alot. how are we supost to know stuff if things keep getting locked? maby someone wants to know something. witch they do. can we stop locking or make it so u have to be a boy to read boy stuff and a girl to read girl stuff so we can talk about it without girls knowing? and this site has no point if we cant share tecneque or personal stuff. and i cant msg people cuzz i dont have 100 posts maby some kid just needs to know one thing but cant cuz he needs to msg someone but only has 1 post. i want to talk about stuff but cant cuz it would get locked. i dont e mail cuz my mom cheks it, mabey other kids moms check there e mail or something like that. this site is the only place i can turn to and it doesnt have the real answers i need. im sure others feel the same way. can we fix this problem? like realy. i need to talk to someone..... help...

DUDE, if your not happy. Find somewhere else, this is a great forum and the rules are here for your safety! Some of the rules might not be good for all or seen bad by others. But its something you can't fix. 100 posts isnt that hard to get. If your mother checks your emails, you don't think she wont check your history? Make a new email, she doesn't need to know about your email. There are other forums, with different view or rules on these sorts of things. People come here to help, and some are here to help. There are some great people here. So please stop whining about some rules, they are there, they wont change to soon to fast, move on.

[Scarface]

like in tecneque and things lke that.i can asure

Technique and stories/experiences is what is not allowed here. Like in depth description or "ways" of doing it.

[welcome_to_chaos]

the bottom line is that it was unappropriate for this site thats y it was locked.

[Rutherford The Brave]

wow wow wow. i never sed i was curios. im strait and i think homosexuality is rong. i didnt want to say it but i did. my post is only saying i wish i could post things and get detailed answers. like in tecneque and things lke that.i can asure u im not curios about my sexuality. im actuly kindof insulted.

Watch some porn, you might learn something.

[MRcongeniality]

I do see your problem....

BUT... The statement
"wow wow wow. i never sed i was curios. im strait and i think homosexuality is rong. i didnt want to say it but i did. my post is only saying i wish i could post things and get detailed answers. like in tecneque and things lke that.i can asure u im not curios about my sexuality. im actuly kindof insulted."
Was really appalling.

Firstly... Vt is an incredibly multi cultural place, and thats what makes it epicly amazing! And, im sure, like me, alot of it is made up of homosexuals, just like the whole world. You saying that homosexuality insults you, is the worst sort of insult i could receive! And thats appalling. You'll definitely find as you grow as a bigger member, if you get through the security now! ... that there is a wide mix of people here, and you can't be prejudicial or racist, and that remark was both and more...

Secondly... the point being that this is a multicultural site, full of a wide range of ordinary people... its an inappropriate place to ask for JACK OFF TECHNIQUES! Its clear, that if its in the rules that you cant do that, then it is against the whole sites rules... and goes against the meaning of the site! If the moderators here wanted people asking for how to wank there willy; they'd have let them! But, clearly they don't! SO if thats what you want, i suggest you look elsewhere, and maybe its a deterrent to those who do just want to jackoff, that there is a 100post lock!

SECONDLY! no wait; THIRDLY! you're spelling is appalling in l33t, the point of it is to write in a way that the reader can understand just as quickly as normal vocabulary, but takes less time to write down... You're just dayme layzzie!

[dude14]

I do see your problem....

BUT... The statement
"wow wow wow. i never sed i was curios. im strait and i think homosexuality is rong. i didnt want to say it but i did. my post is only saying i wish i could post things and get detailed answers. like in tecneque and things lke that.i can asure u im not curios about my sexuality. im actuly kindof insulted."
Was really appalling.

Firstly... Vt is an incredibly multi cultural place, and thats what makes it epicly amazing! And, im sure, like me, alot of it is made up of homosexuals, just like the whole world. You saying that homosexuality insults you, is the worst sort of insult i could receive! And thats appalling. You'll definitely find as you grow as a bigger member, if you get through the security now! ... that there is a wide mix of people here, and you can't be prejudicial or racist, and that remark was both and more...

Secondly... the point being that this is a multicultural site, full of a wide range of ordinary people... its an inappropriate place to ask for JACK OFF TECHNIQUES! Its clear, that if its in the rules that you cant do that, then it is against the whole sites rules... and goes against the meaning of the site! If the moderators here wanted people asking for how to wank there willy; they'd have let them! But, clearly they don't! SO if thats what you want, i suggest you look elsewhere, and maybe its a deterrent to those who do just want to jackoff, that there is a 100post lock!

SECONDLY! no wait; THIRDLY! you're spelling is appalling in l33t, the point of it is to write in a way that the reader can understand just as quickly as normal vocabulary, but takes less time to write down... You're just dayme layzzie!

no i never sed homosexuality insulted me i sed the fact people sed i was insulted me. i just dont agree with homosexuality but i live with it. my couzn is openly gay and my friend is in the closet. i help him thrue life and were best budds. i dont care that hes gay.i dont hate the person hate the sin. i dont have a prob with u or any other gay people. i have aproblem with gay itsef.

[Iron Man]

no i never sed homosexuality insulted me i sed the fact people sed i was insulted me. i just dont agree with homosexuality but i live with it. my couzn is openly gay and my friend is in the closet. i help him thrue life and were best budds. i dont care that hes gay.i dont hate the person hate the sin. i dont have a prob with u or any other gay people. i have aproblem with gay itsef.

What is your problem with homosexuality? Did it take your job? Did it steal your ideas for a school project? Did it kill anyone close to you? I highly doubt it did any of those.

[The Batman]

Stay on topic this is not about homosexuality.

[Iron Man]

Sorry Tom.

[dude14]

What is your problem with homosexuality? Did it take your job? Did it steal your ideas for a school project? Did it kill anyone close to you? I highly doubt it did any of those.

ya it killed my cousn and is killing my other one. so tats y i hate it. i love him hes my fave cousin but hes dieng of aids.

[The Batman]

Since you can't seem to listen :locked:

Also being gay doesn't give you AIDS, sharing needles and unprotected sex does that. So don't think that he's dying because he's gay, when even if he was straight and he slept with someone that had AIDS or HIV he'd still have the same chance of getting it.