Its Over again.

[Paladino]

She dumped me again last night because I said she was controlling me, she gave me my jumber back and said Its over and walked away from me. Her friends were asking me to go back out with her and I said I dont know and told them Id think about it, but tonight a song came on and I was crying over it and I really dont know whether to go back out with her. Part of me wants to, but there is something telling me not to. I love her so much and I dont know what to do anymore.

[Kaius]

Greg, this is the second time in 2 days shes broken up with you.. If it hasn't got better this time.. I don't think it's going to. I know its going to be a struggle to get over her, but you've got to put yourself first this time. Save yourself from being hurt and find someone that actually appreciates you, because it seems to me she's messing you about if not using you. If you need to talk you know where to find me, just don't give up, alright? You're worth more than someone like her.

[Paladino]

Greg, this is the second time in 2 days shes broken up with you.. If it hasn't got better this time.. I don't think it's going to. I know its going to be a struggle to get over her, but you've got to put yourself first this time. Save yourself from being hurt and find someone that actually appreciates you, because it seems to me she's messing you about if not using you. If you need to talk you know where to find me, just don't give up, alright? You're worth more than someone like her.

Shes not that bad shes normally nice to me, I dont know if I can get over her, or if I want to.

[Kaius]

Trust me I know the feeling, its difficult to get over someone that means a lot to you, but sometimes you need to leave something behind to find something better, even if it does hurt. The feeling of knowing someone means more you to than you mean to them is something that will take a long time to forget, but with the help of someone even better than her, that'll appreciate you more it will ease. Think of it from this angle, How much did you mean to her if she was able to dump you that easily over something so small?

[Paladino]

How much did you mean to her if she was able to dump you that easily over something so small?

Youre right but I think I did mean alot to her because she wants to go back out with me apparantly.

[Kaius]

That's true, but the question is are you prepared for it to happen again if it comes to it..?

[Paladino]

That's true, but the question is are you prepared for it to happen again if it comes to it..?

I dont know, this whole thing is really confusing :(

[Kaius]

Just think it over a little for a few days before you give her a definite answer :)

[Paladino]

Just think it over a little for a few days before you give her a definite answer :)

Ok thanks for the advice.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Move on. Seriously, if you keep doing this your just going to get hurt. Just find a new girl, its not that hard. Play the game, don't live on the past. Find a girl who loves you, is nice and doesn't control you. Chasing ex's just makes it apparent to other girls that you clingy and you take things hard. Thus they will turn away, and not want anything. Just take it in stride and find a new girl.

[DanielBoy]

She really should not be controlling you, if she is. Also, you need to understand relationships are all about compromise, so if you can't compromise, or she can't, then it really wont work out. You can't get your way 100% of the time, sometimes not even 50% of the time. If you really love her, apologize, let her know how you feel, and tell her you are willing to compromise if she is willing to compromise. :)

I hope I helped. :D