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Kaya
August 1st, 2010, 01:26 PM
I hate my whole family...I should just fuckin run away or something. Even my brother, the one that actually used to care about me, made fun of me for being upset...my mom and sister are the ones who hurt me most. My brother is starting to, too.
The Harlequin
August 1st, 2010, 02:21 PM
We all have times where we want to run away from home, but most of these are about trivial things that are the solved the following morning,
Do you want to talk about specifics? It's fine if you don't, it's just it might help you get it off your chest...
Shortkid
August 1st, 2010, 04:57 PM
Well, I'd say take a deep breath. relax. now realize that nothing outside of u controls who u are. it all comes from within. By getting pissed at them, you are letting them define u. stop that. try this--"never mind what happens" something that appears good happens say oh well. somet hing that appears bad happens say oh well. make "I never mind what happens" your special mantra. three weeks and u will be a different person.
Kahn
August 1st, 2010, 06:56 PM
Don't run away. It's plain and simple. It's almost as bad off a decision as committing suicide, and like suicide it is the 'easy' way out. It is the way where you decide that you just can't deal with any of it anymore. You just have to get away.
It is the weak decision. Why isn't it the best? Because you are leaving behind everything you had and most things that will help you in the future. A roof over your head, food, clothes, your family. You'll lose all of this. And that is a guarantee.
Your family cares about you, no matter what you think. They would look for you were you to run away. You say your brother was the only one that "used to care about you, but now even he hurts you". Believe it or not, your family does care just as I said before. They are just cruel, and mean.
Maybe instead of running away you can make plans to go stay with a friend for awhile or if your mother and father are divorced make arrangements with your father to go live with him for a little bit. Or maybe you can just sit down with your mom and talk to her about how you feel hurt by the things she and the others say. It may just be as simple as that, but it is up to you to communicate with all of them. If you are silent and don't speak that may be why they are teasing you. Maybe they are trying to get you to talk, but either way you need to start talking about this stuff to your mom and maybe even your father.
Kaya
August 1st, 2010, 08:43 PM
i did go to devils den (a rock place) and i left everybody...no one came to look for me except for my cousin.
Kahn
August 2nd, 2010, 01:05 PM
But you obviously went back. Why would you leave just to come back? It's extremely difficult for some to leave their family for long periods of time, but imagine leaving them forever. Don't make the mistake of leaving, because there will only be a few opportunities (not in the near future) that will allow you to take it back.
welcome_to_chaos
August 2nd, 2010, 01:08 PM
dont do something you will later regret at least where u r u have a shelter food and warm bed
Kaya
August 2nd, 2010, 02:24 PM
I only went back because I didnt know where my cousin was....so I went and found her. Shes the only one who actually cares.
Kahn
August 4th, 2010, 11:59 AM
That's not true. You may feel like they don't care, but have you at least tried reaching out to them?
HellHound
August 4th, 2010, 03:26 PM
This things happen.I once ran to a sibling and the next day our fight was over,dont recommend it still
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