Finding People Like Me.

[TySpeedy]

Okay, so I'm Bi. I have been in a relationship with a girl. But never a guy. And I was wondering how it was dating a guy. But like how do you find guys in your area? Like there is none in my area. Well at least I don't think. I just don't know how to find guys... Is there ways? :confused:

[Harley Quinn]

Lgbt clubs, youth groups, or is there lgbt support system in your school? Those would mainly be the ones, but the thing to do is to just talk to guys, and go from there. If you don't talk, you don't get anywhere, and you wont know if a guys bi or gay without talking unless he's super camp, but y'know :P

[Billy15]

Tyatron, if you ever find the answer to that, please let me know because I've been wondering the same forever. I've never been with a boy or girl sexually but I know I must be gay and where we live it the same way, maybe worse. I really want to meet someone to but someone special and not just someone to craw in bed with to prove to myself that I'm gay. Good question Ty.

[taylor115]

i want that exact thing but i am not ure im gay i think im bi but more to the gay side

[Deadalus]

A great place to start is to tell someone. I no its scary as hell believe me but you would be surprised how many people know/ know of someone who's gay or bi. Personaly i started on a site called tagged, i set the filter to people in my area who were gay or bi and there was around 100 people my age on the site. It might be diff there tho :p Dating a guy is almost the same as girls, in my exp guys are less into sex tho so theres not need to rush into anything.

[DanielBoy]

It is really hard to find guys in your area! I know people at school, and although this is shallow, you basically will commit social suicide if you come out in high school. I think relationships with guys will get too physical too fast, and can make them only about sex. I am trying to do a Long Distance thing with someone, and we are just getting to know each other first, but it will make a stronger relationship that will be based mainly on each other and not on sex. I suggest doing the same, at least for your first relationship, because relationships built only on sex, don't work!; although it was a straight relationship, I know this from experience.

I hope I helped. :D