I dunno what to make of this

[ackmedsgirl666]

anyways heres the dealio
a girl i dated in the past who lives in my group home with me asked me out last weekend. we dated for 3 days and then she dumped me for her ex bf whom she had cheated on when she was away. im getting fed up now because heres the dealio
she has started giving me looks and singing sad country songs that involve talking about wanting a person back in their arms etc. well last nite she was singing here comes goodbye and what hurts the most by rascal flatts and was looking right at me and crying. i dunno what to do about this tho
she has a boyfriend because they are still dating but im stuck in the middle
i still love her and i dunno what to do
can anyone help?

[emt.Cam]

I would let it be Kenzie. If she's still in a relationship then it's only going to pull at your heart strings more. To me, she seems very indecisive which is why I would let it settle until she decides what she wants. Love is a powerful thing, your heart may be saying you love her but you need to also use your mind. Is chasing her going to hurt you even more? I feel that -right now- it will. Prevent yourself from getting hurt right now and let it settle. If she wants to be with you then she will make the effort to do so. Also, if things are meant to be, then you'll find your way together. I'm in a hurry so if you have further questions, feel free to PM me. Take care.

[Babobobo]

Oh just leave her to be sad. She's not a very good person if she cheats on boyfriends and breaks up with people after 3 days, only to want them back. She thinks that she can get whatever she wants, but this time prove her wrong and let her be sad, she doesn't deserve a guy after what she's done.

[taylor115]

mybe she needs some space

[kyle95]

Love's a little deeper than that mate. This girl loves playing, obviously has a personality issue and needs attention. Be cool and be happy when she comes your way. You're not marrying her and she's not married - so don't get all wrapped up in who's dating who. Unless she looks like Taylor Swift, I wouldn't put much stock into her choice of songs either. I'm sure it's tough enough in a group home for all of you, including her. Her coping mechanism is to create this artificial "family" of blokes that love her. So don't burst her bubble or take her actions too seriously, she's got problems and she's coping the best way she knows how. Blokes cope differently, we like territory and possessions, girls like protection and feeling wanted.

[SLABBS]

im in the same situation. and the boyfrined sells drugs and is a dick. :\

[DanielBoy]

Girls are cruel and play games. She could miss you, her BF could have done something bad, or she might just be trying to get a rise out of you. If she wants you, she will stop dating the other guy, and if you see that, make your move. If this happens again with her, blow her off. :P

I hope I helped. :D