Strait please- turn ons!

[Jennifer's Ashes]

I decided to start this thread because I figured that there are way too many girls out there who have no idea what guys like, so any input would be much appreciated. Thanks a lot!

PS- if any mods feel the need to move this post to relationships & dating, that's totally cool, I couldn't decide where to put it anyway.
:P

[Aspiringanonymous]

Boys' Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[CuriousZach]

haha, when she's not awkward. just a really cool girl who can take a joke, and make jokes (:. a girl that isnt afraid to speak her mind, and isnt obnoxious or bitchy about it.
i like it when girls dont wear makeup. a little is good, but when they wear way too much its a complete turn off.
skirts are also a turn on for me haha

[JayTea]

Always a talkative girl with one that I can talk to, sweet and caring, one that can tell me when I am WAY out of my mind, nice smile, one that can calm me down, womanly curves, and one that cares about the stuff I do. Sorry kinda long. :eek:

[Babobobo]

Personality wise; When they are outgoing and fun and not quiet and I don't like when they don't contribute at all to the conversation. Or when they're really awkward and say random and boring stuff. I also like ones who can laugh at themselves and a lot of things. And nice to everyone, and don't show off.

Looks wise: I like black or brown hair, but that's just my opinion. I really don't like when it's damaged and you can't run your fingers through it without feeling thin and unhealthy. If someone has acne I don't make a big deal out of it, it's something they can't help and it's not their fault. As long as they try to get rid of it then that's fine.
I'm also kind of a sucker for eyeliner and gauges, but not the big ones. And ones that don't wear trash clothing, maybe less of the usual feminine look once in a while. Urban outfitters has the best clothes for girls I like.

These are just my opinions though. :)

[Ramiro]

A girl is honest and truthful. Fun to be with and good dancer for me!

[Rex99]

Most guys love legs, don't cover them to much, but don't show a lot because it makes girls look slutty, and attracts the wrong type of guys. Also,a girl that smiles, but don't smile just for no reason or all the time, because when you don't or forget to smile for whatever reason, it looks like your angry, and people will try to avoid you. So smile when you're with or talking to people, but not if your at the bus stop by yourself. Perhaps a small grin will do.
Also, you need to sound genuinely happy to be talking to someone, especially if you have a crush on them. Also, don't be that girl that spends like an hour on her hair everyday before school, because it can really be a turn off.

[Jess]

do most guys care about your looks? :S

[JayTea]

do most guys care about your looks? :S

I do, I try to not look like a slob, but I can not say that does not happen ;).

[misery_business]

I know this is only for guys but I'm gonna post this anyways :D

Personality wise: sweet, caring, preety but someone who's not vain and shallow, a little quiet and shy but can speak her mind when she feels like it :P

Looks... I really don't mind what colour her hair or eyes are as long as she's beautiful and i love her :)

[The Red Devil]

Well, turn ons, do you mean like in a guy thinking, wow shes really pretty or hot?
Because in that case I like girls who are in a healthy weight range (not extremely skinny but not too chubby). Smooth skin is also a turn on for me and an average height. Im not to bothered about hair, but just a pretty face and nice figure.

However that is just checking a random girl out. If you mean what kind of girls I like or would date, then I'm not so fussed about looks. I like girls who I can get along easily with, and have no difficulty talking to and there isnt any awkwardness. I like it when a girl is friendly, and kind, so personality is really important. I also like girls with standards and self respect. There are several girls at my school who are extremely hot in my opinion but i dont like them because I dont talk to them and they seem really slutty.

A lot of girls seem to think boob size important to us guys. While I must admit a nice set of firm round C's are very attractive they are not important. I think one of my friends is very pretty, yet she has very small breasts and my girlfriend didnt have large ones either. In my experience most guys dont really care about a girls breast size.

[Jess]

dang so most guys do care about looks >_<

[JayTea]

dang so most guys do care about looks >_<

I care a little, but I think their attitude and what is on the inside means a lot to me.

[Rex99]

I would have to say I care a small amount, although it's not a deciding factor as to who I'd date. Just make sure to hit the gym once in a while to stay fit, unless you're skinny, in which case just try to stay within a healthy weight and you should do fine. I have to agree with red_devil94 about the boobs, because the "hottest" girls in my school aren't always the one's with the big boobs, according to most of my friends.
Personality is probably the most important factor for most guys when it comes to starting a relationship, but usually its your physical appearance that may attract someone in the early stages, before you get to know them.

[The Red Devil]

I would have to say I care a small amount, although it's not a deciding factor as to who I'd date. Just make sure to hit the gym once in a while to stay fit, unless you're skinny, in which case just try to stay within a healthy weight and you should do fine. I have to agree with red_devil94 about the boobs, because the "hottest" girls in my school aren't always the one's with the big boobs, according to most of my friends.
Personality is probably the most important factor for most guys when it comes to starting a relationship, but usually its your physical appearance that may attract someone in the early stages, before you get to know them.
Exactly.

While looks my attract us at first glance, when getting into a serious relationship personality is more important. If your not the most stunning girl, we might not like you at first glance, but once you talk to us and we get to know you, or least know what kind of person you are and you personality then we are more likely to feel a connection, or 'liking' towards you.

So really, talk to guys and let them see who you truly are. That is what I like the most.

[Jennifer's Ashes]

I was gonna say something bu never mind XD

[Alfred Pennyworth]

I would have to say that in a girl, looks don't really matter. They may affect what your first impression of them is, but you should know not to judge someone by their looks. Mostly, once you get to know the person, looks shouldn't matter. It should be the personality that affects you the most. Now for turn-ons for me, I would say, that big breasts aren't really a turn on, since most girls who do have them tend to flaunt them, and the girls I've seen, go almost to the extent of looking slutty, and that is a major turn-OFF. I personally like girls who have short hair, and like to wear jeans, because for me, tom-boyish girls turn me on. I don't really get turned on by girls who are very "girly", pardon the expression. I hate it when girls wear a lot of makeup. A little is alright, but the whole point of makeup is to compliment your face, not cover it up. Also to me, it seems that some girls who wear that much makeup are almost ashamed to show their real face, hence why they wear so much makeup.

Personality wise, I like a girl who isn't extremely outgoing, but isn't too shy either. I get turned on by girls who aren't the life of the party, but aren't going to just sit in the corner reading. I love it when a girl is smart and knows how to get stuff done, but isn't all up in your face about it. I like when a girl is willing to stand up for some kid getting bullied, and doesn't mind getting down and dirty to get something done.

[kyle95]

Well, there's no universal standard for what blokes like. in general i would agree with a lot of the comments, loud and obnoxious is a major turn off. Everything else is fair game. I like girls who act like - well, girls! I like watching them muck about their clothes, and appearances, it's what I expect from them. If they don't, that's fine too. Girls are adorable when they're laughing, crying, playing, cuddling, anything. I also like them to be in shape, a nice body doesn't hurt - it's doesn't mean they have to worry about their breast size. She should feel comfortable being herself around me.

[Dog Desab]

hmm... when it comes to girls i think every wants a girl who is relatable, looks help but people can get over looks if they have a great personality i think thats the key for a relationship!!!

Personally, if im single as soon as i meet a girl, im already trying looking them thru waiting for something that i will like or something extremely obnoxious that i will hate... if we make it to the friendship level its time for me to figure out how submissive to my will they are and their secrets for the trust but sadly its harder for me to give out my secrets than receive but i give them to her eventually...

stage three: lose interest to make them feel as though im only for friendship

stage 4: wait... (can go on for years) till they want me then...

stage 5: date#1 couple of friends to the movies (scary movies) sit next to each other and look for a signal that she needs me for protection. end date#1...

last stage: if i havent heard any type of rumor of her liking me or she hasnt said so herself than i move on..

[DanielBoy]

Guys like having fun and being laid back. The thing about straight relationships is that there is always courtship involved, so the guy really doesn't get much chance to be laid back. Anything that is fun and romantic, which is a hard balance, is a turn on for a guy. If you can get that balance right, your guy will be very lucky to have you. :P

I hope I helped. :D