just don't know...

[wahoogirl11]

I've liked this guy for a long time, and for a while it was pretty clear that he liked me too, at least a little bit. We text all of the time, we've gone for walks together, he's helped me out doing little favors for me and stuff.

My friends make him uncomfortable, so he'd much rather hang out with me alone. He even told one of my friends that he liked me and that he's asking me to homecoming this year...which was unexpected, because he's not at all the kind of guy that enjoys dances like that.

He likes being alone, and he's really spiritual and religious and stuff. He doesn't always want to be talking to anyone at all. He'll be texting me one day, completely interested, wanting to hang out, and then the next day he won't answer me at all, or he'll just stop texting me in the middle of our conversation, or he won't want to hang out. I'm just confused!

What do I make of this? Thanks :) I have another guy that I like, too, who is much more reliable...we've been friends for years. But I don't htink that I could date him without being upset over losing this guy... ;)

[Rutherford The Brave]

Sounds like he has some interest in you. You should go after him, just give it a try.

[DanielBoy]

It sounds like he might be a little bipolar or manic depressed. I don't like hanging out with most of the friends of allot of the girls I dated. If you want to date him, go for it, but keep in mind his emotions and feelings, and make alone time with him.

As far as the texting thing gos, a guy I have been texting does that. Most of the time, he doesn't reply, and when he does, we talk for hours and then nothing, he disappears. Sometimes it is because his phone dies, but IDK about the other times. Confuses the hell out of me. :\

I hope I helped. :D

[misery_business]

It sounds like he might be a little bipolar or manic depressed.


What gives you that idea? :/

I say go for it! make a move and see what he does and where it goes, if he's a good friend and you do go out i think it's gonna be even better :)
good luck! :)

[Art_dude]

Seems pretty apparent to me that he likes you. And coming from a shy, spiritual person myself, I can tell you that us introverts tend to act that way, but it is in no way indicative of our disinterest. It sounds like he really likes you. He just happens to be quiet, reflective, and doesn't want to deal with the friends on the side that he may not enjoy. I think the very fact that he even plans on asking you to homecoming shows just how much he cares - that he'd do something he really doesn't like just to be with you and show you he likes you. I say go for it! Just try to be understanding of his personality and the way he may interact with you. Don't take things too personally! It's just his nature to be less interactive. I'm sure this will change once you get into a relationship. Wish you the best!

[jackfergusion]

As you said that the first guy had stopped conversations with you than give a chance to your another friend who likes you. He might be proved better than the first one. Just dater with him without any thinking about that first guy.