so... i dont no where this is going... what will he do?

[sarah newman]

There’s this guy who keeps on texting me and calling me, saying he loves me and shit like that. Ofc I don’t believe him, but the other thing to think about is im 14.. and hes 20 this November!
But he also knows a dew of my m8s, and he thinks it’s funny to say shit about me??? Saying I forced him to finger me to 3 of my m8s, that he didn’t finger me at all and im spreading shit to his bro, and telling people that I told him I h8 my m8s and that I use them?? How sick is that!
I have told him to fuck off so many times I’ve lost count, but he says he wont leave him alone until he gets what he wants… which is me.
He wont leave me alone.
He says he self harms because he lost me.
I was willing to sort things out, but he called my dad a cunt, and me a fat bitch to my face.
When I was ok wiv him, all he talked about was sex.
He wants my babies.
He wants to marry me.
He wants me forever…
What a load of shit!
He most probz wants me for sex.
When I saw him once, all he did was touch me up…
It was a bad idea to meet up wiv him.. to let him explain.

Im worried if he makes me do stuff, I do kinda have feelings for him, but I cant be forced into doing things wiv him, im really worried.

I no im strong, but hes mega strong!
He said if he don’t get me then he will find away to have me for ever.
That worries me, what will he do??
He threatens me…
That he will report me for stalking him!
That he will move to Australia coz of me..
He put his hands round my throat b4..
Not strangling me, but he wouldn’t let me go..
My m8s thought it was a joke, he was laughing to,
But I was shaking..
I just want him to leave me alone.. for good.

[Aspiringanonymous]

On the other hand, you should report him for stalking and harrasment. You are very much in an advantageous position to do so, given your age difference and the fact that his actions will more than likely have violated consent laws. Keep all his texts and any other record of electronic correspondence, it might contain useful evidence. The friends that have seen you with him can testify for you as well. Let your father know, he should be willing to help you do this.

It might seem harsh, but it's the least you can do for yourself right now. If he can't be persuaded out of integrity to respect you, then he'll have to be forced.

Good luck with everything. :hug3:

[Kaya]

You should deff report him. He has no right to lay a hand on you OR threaten you.

[Babobobo]

The odds are in your favor, my friend. You can easily report him but MAKE SURE YOU HAVE EVIDENCE. Such as the text messages on your phones. He'll be arrested and you'll be over with it. Simple pimple Also tell your parents before hand, get their advice as well.

[INFERNO]

Definitely report him to the police because an issue such as this is not one that gets taken lightly especially when there is proof of it. If your parents are unaware of this, then you should tell them as soon as possible but before reporting it to the police. Depending on the actual content of the messages and things he said/did, he may be reported for pedophilia or similar acts. That is not taken lightly by police forces in North America and I assume not in Australia (you may be in Australia because you mentioned it) so with solid proof of this, he would be arrested.

[kartman]

Sarah don't worry about hurting this guy in anyway, because lets face it, it certainly does not look like he cares if he hurts you, report him and get him dealt with swiftly before you truly fall for him, guys of this age can talk girls into doing all sorts of stupid things that they will regret, it certainly looks like this guy is looking for something that most guys are looking for... you need to deal with this before it gets out of hand.

Police in the UK are highly trained to deal with situations like this, don't let him make you think that he will turn things around so the blame is on you if you report it. All the police will have to do is look at the proof, ensure that you keep this! Although if you have spoke to him via the internet eg msn or e-mail chances are the police will be able to trace these, the same with text messages.

Don't be afraid report this guy before he makes you do something stupid.

[HellHound]

Keep your cool hun.Dont let a jerk get to you.Call the police and report him.He cant get away,ur a minor.Best of luck!

[The Flightless Hawk]

you should report him, stay away from him and ignore him. tell someone

[the8bitter]

There’s this guy who keeps on texting me and calling me, saying he loves me and shit like that. Ofc I don’t believe him, but the other thing to think about is im 14.. and hes 20 this November!
But he also knows a dew of my m8s, and he thinks it’s funny to say shit about me??? Saying I forced him to finger me to 3 of my m8s, that he didn’t finger me at all and im spreading shit to his bro, and telling people that I told him I h8 my m8s and that I use them?? How sick is that!
I have told him to fuck off so many times I’ve lost count, but he says he wont leave him alone until he gets what he wants… which is me.
He wont leave me alone.
He says he self harms because he lost me.
I was willing to sort things out, but he called my dad a cunt, and me a fat bitch to my face.
When I was ok wiv him, all he talked about was sex.
He wants my babies.
He wants to marry me.
He wants me forever…
What a load of shit!
He most probz wants me for sex.
When I saw him once, all he did was touch me up…
It was a bad idea to meet up wiv him.. to let him explain.

Im worried if he makes me do stuff, I do kinda have feelings for him, but I cant be forced into doing things wiv him, im really worried.

I no im strong, but hes mega strong!
He said if he don’t get me then he will find away to have me for ever.
That worries me, what will he do??
He threatens me…
That he will report me for stalking him!
That he will move to Australia coz of me..
He put his hands round my throat b4..
Not strangling me, but he wouldn’t let me go..
My m8s thought it was a joke, he was laughing to,
But I was shaking..
I just want him to leave me alone.. for good.

Sounds like you have a pedophile on your hands. Do you know anything about this guy, or is he just an anonymous figure you meet somewhere online? If you don't know him, here's what you should do...

*Track down his IP Address- it'll give you the physical location of his computer and you can sort it out from there.

*If you know the guy's name, there are a LOT of people searching websites (that are free, of course) and you can get more information in the event that you want to report him.

*If you can, try and screen-cap (on standard computers, that'd be the "PRTSCSYSRQRD* (it captures the entire computer screen) some evidence if you're going to report him. After you hit that button, go to Microsoft Paint (on all of the Windows computer at the start panel) paste it and save it.

That guy sounds like a pedophile- they're the sickest people on the planet. I wish I knew who that guy was so I could kick his ass for you and make sure you couldn't harass you anymore. I'm 14 also btw

[ankurg562]

my friend. You can easily report him but MAKE SURE YOU HAVE EVIDENCE. u know ur age is 14 this nov.u are not a adult.please tack care.

[Resistance]

if i were you i would told my parents about this and i would go to the police and tell them what's up. guys like him only want girls for sex and when they can't get what they want they can hurt them.

[Asylum]

tell ur parnets, report him for stalking, threatening... get a restraining order, a new number, new email address etc. i had a similar situation but it was hte opposite. i was sent messages saying that i was going to be raped... what they'd do to me, how they'd kill me.. report him and he will stop bothering u. u r not alone... stay strong hun *huggles*

[Agony]

report him, or just LET him move to australia. Ive been in your situation before( being stalked and told I was the cause of someones self harm) and its total BULL. Honestly, just report him and get him out of your life, even if you do have feelings for him, it doesnt seem like hes the kinda guy you should associate with AT ALL

[sarah newman]

Thanks everyone,,
I had a major set back :/ I reported him anonymously and my parents don't know, but I told them that Someones harassing me so there taking me to school and stuff like that to see what goes on x
After I reported him, which I should of done before he did such an awful thing to me...